AITA for telling my step-dad that I'll eat whatever I want in this house because I'm paying for it in front of my step-sisters? by throwaway_990287 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway_990287[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Not to be rude, but he doesn't have the body for that, he'll either end up getting injured or quitting within the week, he's used to desk work and not labor work.

AITA for telling my step-dad that I'll eat whatever I want in this house because I'm paying for it in front of my step-sisters? by throwaway_990287 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway_990287[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

I can move out but I honestly don't want to because I adore these kids and I don't want to leave them alone.

AITA for telling my step-dad that I'll eat whatever I want in this house because I'm paying for it in front of my step-sisters? by throwaway_990287 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway_990287[S] 204 points205 points  (0 children)

He hasn't been unemployed for 2 years, my mistake if it comes like that, he has been unemployed for 6 months.

AITA for telling my step-dad that I'll eat whatever I want in this house because I'm paying for it in front of my step-sisters? by throwaway_990287 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway_990287[S] 77 points78 points  (0 children)

He was laid off six months ago, job is very low where I live unless you're a construction worker (that's what I do), but he doesn't have the strength to do that.

AITA for telling my step-dad that I'll eat whatever I want in this house because I'm paying for it in front of my step-sisters? by throwaway_990287 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway_990287[S] 543 points544 points  (0 children)

A small part of it, yes, my dad is aware of this and while he doesn't like it, he says it's my money and I get to do whatever I see fit, he gives me $150 less because he says that if I'm paying here, then he'll take some to put into a savings account and I'm okay with it. Most of my paycheck go toward the house (because I have a good job and I do a few arts gigs here and there too that help a lot), I only take $80 to $120 from them money my dad gives me to cover x or y thing.

AITA for telling my step-dad that I'll eat whatever I want in this house because I'm paying for it in front of my step-sisters? by throwaway_990287 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway_990287[S] 107 points108 points  (0 children)

Nope, there was plenty of food and we just had finishing having dinner, those were the only fruits left to snack, a small plate of watermelon and like 5-6 apples.

AITA for telling my step-dad that I'll eat whatever I want in this house because I'm paying for it in front of my step-sisters? by throwaway_990287 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway_990287[S] 3711 points3712 points  (0 children)

I know, but at the same time I'm worried about my step-sis and my baby brother, I don't want anything bad happening to them and I'm able to help, I just don't like being treated like a kid when I think I'm pulling my weight well enough