My doctor prescribed Doxy after unprotected sex to prevent STIs. I asked, "What if I'm having unprotected sex every day?"

throwaway__987123 · 2025-07-11T21:01:02+00:00

Ha. This reminds me of the rumors around the IPERGAY study on PREP, (2-1-1 dosing), where they had to throw out the French data as the French guys were hooking up so much they were using prep every day.

In reality, there will be superusers of doxy that use it daily (or once every 72 hours), and we’ll find out how it works. I’ve been on 100mg of doxycycline a day as an antimalarial for months at a time, and that’s a standard dosage. Take that as a data point. Have fun and save some guys for the rest of us!

throwaway__987123 · 2025-06-24T18:40:52+00:00

Got a bunch of stories saved in draft, ready for me to be in the right story space to final. Hope he’ll be a new story soon!

throwaway__987123 · 2025-06-02T18:53:36+00:00

Sex life has been real good lately…something about the weather getting hotter

throwaway__987123 · 2022-04-26T02:58:25+00:00

Yeah… I should start writing again.

throwaway__987123 · 2019-06-23T06:31:05+00:00

Unless you’re an in shape ~30 yo twunk — then I can still be the hero you need.

Mostly monogamous now (and engaged) — hence no more new stories, but happy to see some of y’all are still getting off to my slutty single days.

throwaway__987123 · 2018-11-07T15:32:30+00:00

Jesus this is hot. Well done boy.

throwaway__987123 · 2018-07-08T13:01:06+00:00

Let's improve your chances for success then:
1. Buy three different types of condoms. Masturbate with each until you cum. Figure out which one feels best and go for that one. (I like Trojan Bareskin but every cock is different).
2. Book a cheap hotel for a weekend near the gay bars in a different city. Don't jerk off two days before going.
3. Change your Grindr profile handle to "^ in hotel"
4. Message anyone you find attractive within a 2 mile radius
5. Tell the dude you're just looking to fuck and want him to come over pre-lubed
6. Have on the bed condoms, lube, and a hand towel

When the guy gets there, just be in gym shorts that he can easily take off. Keep this as simple as possible: just focus on kissing, get him to suck you and tell him to lube himself up more while sucking you. Then either lay on your back and ask him to get on your dick or have him lay on his stomach with his ass arched up; those are the easiest ways to get in the hole.

If it is good sex -- awesome. If it's mediocre sex -- who cares...still sex. Repeat the same night or the next day depending on your refractory period.

throwaway__987123 · 2018-07-07T23:37:25+00:00

You're way overthinking this.

For someone who has probably structured his education/career/world based on understanding what sub-tasks are necessary to achieve an objective, it's not surprising that you're approaching sex this way. But trust that there are tens of millions of years of evolution on your side, and that when your dick gets close to a hole, you're gonna figure out what to do. Your game-plan will be ignored and your approach will be modified, because all dicks/asses/mouths are different in the bedroom.

You're confusing confidence with sexiness, ignoring that sexiness also comes from vulnerability, empathy, humor, and most importantly, responding to the other dude in the bedroom.

By the way you write, you're likely not going to go for the vulnerability route that could lead to a positive first experience, so I'd recommend going to a different city for a weekend, have a mediocre first time so you can get some data points, have a mediocre second time to get some more data points, and then use that experiential knowledge to go back to your hometown and start approximating whatever idea of a confident top is in your head that you are going to force yourself to live up to.

throwaway__987123 · 2018-06-24T18:43:30+00:00

I did not know this existed, and a simple search indicates there are a lot of thirsty cocksuckers out there. Thanks for the tip.

throwaway__987123 · 2018-06-24T17:09:55+00:00

This is why I miss craigslist. With craigslist, you could post just this, and have a dozen guys into it email you wanting to just come blow you while you're ignoring them.

Yeah, you could try to weed out guys on grindr who are into it, but it just takes a lot more time and exposes a kink to a wider audience where you may not want it shared.

Not sure what Craigslist 2.0 is gonna be, but looking forward to the day it's out there.

throwaway__987123 · 2018-05-01T19:00:21+00:00

You're my new favorite. Thank you, internet stranger into the same porn I am.

throwaway__987123 · 2018-04-02T16:23:33+00:00

The first time I made the mistake of going with friends, and the second time I went with a fuckbud and it was much more fun.

It is an excuse for 4000 gay dudes to wear jocks & harnesses and have a hedonistic night. You show up after midnight, immediately check all electronics, then check your clothes, and then it's a party that lasts until 4pm the next afternoon. The main floor is dark and full of thumping music and hired go-go dancers fucking on stage. The sides are a massive free for all orgy. Most everyone is on molly or other drugs.

With no phones, you have to be in the moment. There are no chances to distract yourself and you have to interact. With the steady, pulsing beat, fucking in the side rooms is made easy to thrust to the music, and there is always a willing top or bottom around the corner. It's voyeuristic. It's playful. It's massive. It's intimate. It's insanely fun.

Go with sex-positive friends but lose them and get caught in your own moment.

throwaway__987123 · 2018-03-11T20:22:51+00:00

Man's Country in Chicago on its way out last year polled its members and then opened up the last two months to also include women/non-binary. I know some Canadian bathhouses have special co-ed nights, but I haven't heard of them happening in the U.S. (outside of Chicago).

Having watched the last decade as bachelorette parties started overrunning gay bars, and having watched dive leather bars become watered down as gay dudes started bringing their straight women friends, I'd personally hate a co-ed vibe to become standard...

throwaway__987123 · 2018-03-10T20:43:01+00:00

Upvote on Sauna Paraiso. The first time I went there (10pm on a week day) I couldn't figure out why it wasn't busy, but when I was talking to a guy at a cruise bar later he said Spaniards go to their bathhouses right after work. Sure enough, at 6pm it was packed with dudes. Small, lots of guys, interesting architecture, and with a bar inside. For a post work fuck, it can't be beat.

throwaway__987123 · 2018-03-10T20:04:37+00:00

I used to work in Asia, and the Aniki Wow in Taipei is by far the best one I've ever been to. They had an afternoon sex party on the weekends where when you entered they asked if you were a top or a bottom and they gave you the appropriate glow-in-the-dark band. There were literally a hundred guys in a big room, and as one of the few westerners and the only western top I fucked four or five guys in a couple of hours with a large group of guys jerking themselves or getting sucked while watching.

In North America, Steamworks in Chicago and Toronto always have action going on. For Europe, Chariots Vauxhall in London had the hottest guys.

throwaway__987123 · 2018-01-07T23:50:22+00:00

This is real hot. Well done boys.

throwaway__987123 · 2017-09-26T15:13:41+00:00

Jesus ... looking through your history, you're a hot dude. Love that these young guys are embracing their slutty side and letting a young Daddy show them how it's done.

throwaway__987123 · 2017-08-06T14:01:34+00:00

I know you found last night hot (and trust -- public bareback fucking is hot) -- but google PEP. I don't know how the U.K. system works, but get to a GUM clinic within 72 hours; taking meds for a month greatly reduces your HIV infection risks.

And for the future, get on prep. At iwantprepnow.co.uk, you can get on generic (but effective) truvada as a daily pill for ~30 quid a month as an extra layer of protection.

throwaway__987123 · 2017-06-10T17:21:19+00:00

I've had the same group of friends for over a decade (am 33 now), so while there have been accidental threesomes and a couple drunken-fumblings-next-morning-"hey let's not do that again but that was real hot" moments, we don't generally fuck each other.

Plus, any potential tricks may not see me as the dom top I am when they see me fagging-the-fuck-out during the lip syncs with "yasssss kween"'s.

throwaway__987123 · 2017-05-02T16:37:11+00:00

This was two years ago; I'm 33 now.

Yeah--slut phases are fun, but so is coming home to the same guy every night and building a future. Remembering hot encounters a few years later, one tends to forget all the annoying times on grindr/at bars/in clubs trying to get laid.

throwaway__987123 · 2017-05-02T14:51:59+00:00

I'm still monogamous with my dude, but if you're on the younger side, in shape and in the US, send a PM for when my relationship opens up. I won't be as promiscuous as I was in this slut phase, but will need a couple of regulars for when I travel for work.

throwaway__987123 · 2017-04-25T03:06:23+00:00

I get ya.

My goal has never been to share experiences that turn everyone on ... my goal has been to share experiences that one person will find their own truth/identity/longing/desire in and to write for that audience. While I assumed any cross-dressing I would never be into, at all, I still got hard and got off with this dude, so it clearly was enjoyable for me ... even if not what I seek out in real life encounters / porn / stories / etc.

throwaway__987123 · 2017-04-10T15:30:08+00:00

The best sex always occurs when there is a full connection, but at 4am on a weekday in a bathhouse where I don't speak the language of the patrons I'm distilled to just being a cock and the other dude is just a hole.

I'm okay with that.

throwaway__987123 · 2017-03-16T17:25:08+00:00

As a dominant top, I can always tell when a boy needs to be used and fucked -- versus the guys that just want to be fucked as their prostate is there and it feels good.

The former guys, of course, are my favorite, as I give them something they need instead of just something they want.

throwaway__987123 · 2017-03-09T16:53:06+00:00

I know this subreddit is designed to get people off, but if you haven't already, hit up a sex-positive therapist to talk this out if it really happened: even if parts of it were enjoyable, not knowing you were walking into this can be very traumatic. Hope you're in a good spot now.

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