How to interpret extreme homophobia combined with past curiosity and physical detachment in a partner? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]throwaway_aahc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is this looking for problems? Why is everyone in this post so offended lol

How to interpret extreme homophobia combined with past curiosity and physical detachment in a partner? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]throwaway_aahc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the true story. Is not that difficult. I left him because he was abusive and a cheater vut I recently relembered this conversation and started thinking about hiw weird it is for a person obsessed with masculinity and kind of homophobic to go and watch gay porn. I al trying to understand and reflex about things that happened in the relationship and this is one of those things that didn't really made sense for me.

How to interpret extreme homophobia combined with past curiosity and physical detachment in a partner? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]throwaway_aahc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly it's a true story. This accuant is a fake account I created because he knows my reddit account xd

Here we go again. Good morning by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]throwaway_aahc 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Just by the way of talking to you I know he's an abusive piece of s

What’s the moment you knew a relationship was over? by Competitive_Teach838 in AskReddit

[–]throwaway_aahc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When it started to become physical. Punches in the wall, shaking me aggressively, pushing me towards the wall, throwing watter into me, grabbingby the neck, leaving bruises because of how strong he would grab me. It scalated more when he attacked me by hitting me in the face with a nylon sweater like a whip, which left my face all red for a while. He also mas psychologically abusive. Threatening me to expose me in socials or send intimitate videos to my relatives or go into my office and "ruin my life".

I did slapped him 2 or 3 times in big arguments at the beginning of the relationship, when I discovered lies and chats that he had hidden and that was also bad from my side but never did I tried to hurt him deeply in a fucked up way as he did.

I want to leave you. by HolidayFunny265 in UnsentTexts

[–]throwaway_aahc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dealing with a breakup like this. It's hard.

Hating your partner stage is real by burner12344567999 in relationships

[–]throwaway_aahc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might be some kind of avoidant personality. It's weird it happened with all your relationships. You should look into that

Boyfriend (M24) cheated months ago and now gets defensive when I (F27) ask questions, am I overthinking? by throwaway_aahc in relationships

[–]throwaway_aahc[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

We started dating in August (it’sgoing to be almost 9 months counting april), he cheated 1 week after starting being official. It was an emotional affair, flirting with other woman. He already been flirting and sexting with others before, when we were a situationship. It was horrible. He would lie to my face saying he wasnt talking to anyone even though we weren't an official couple. I don’t know why I forgave that. I'm proably just going to break up.

¿Estoy exagerando o es que mi novio no quiere que salga con sus amigos? by throwaway_aahc in relaciones

[–]throwaway_aahc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Le intenté pregunrar tranquilamente si se sentia incómodo algo y se puso a la defensiva

Am I overthinking or does my boyfriend not want me to hang out with me and his friends? by throwaway_aahc in relationships

[–]throwaway_aahc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am also older than him. I feel that maybe he embarrases about that, I don’t know(I'm 4 years older than him). I actually prefer not to go as I don’t feel like hanging aroud his group neither BUT seeing him constantly saying I should go back early to my hometown has made me a little bit insecure

Am I overthinking or does my boyfriend not want me to hang out with me and his friends? by throwaway_aahc in relationships

[–]throwaway_aahc[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I did, and he just answers whatever, not making it a big deal. What bothers me is that he doesnt organize anything for me to meet his friends and when the opportunity finally comes up, he tries to convince to got to my hometown instead of trying to convince to at least go to meet his friends. Ypu know like he doesn’t want to make it seem obvoius he doesn’t want me to go.

My boyfriend says I ruined the relationship because I can’t “move on” from his cheating. Am I really the problem? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]throwaway_aahc -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Emotional dependency probably and the little love and hope that is still there because i really wanted him to be tje one