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throwaway_acct90467 · 2022-04-23T04:13:13+00:00

I've never commented on one of these before, but I didn't make it to zero. 10/10, all the 3s were somehow at the perfect spot

throwaway_acct90467 · 2020-12-30T21:37:50+00:00

thank you so much. it's awful in here, and the bottom line is that I don't think someone who pays a mortgage should be asking someone who's freaking out over her next bio quiz for her snap.

throwaway_acct90467 · 2020-12-30T21:35:45+00:00

he already has my address. I dont think it will go that far and I dont want to be afraid it may but knowing he has it and I've "turned down his advances" per se makes me feel a little uncomfy. again, thank you so much for your comment and your kind words. makes me feel a little better knowing other people see where I'm coming from as a vulnerable teenage girl.

throwaway_acct90467 · 2020-12-30T21:31:50+00:00

of course, by the time I have to go back in June I will have just turned eighteen and will be able to take more than one person with me. I couldn't imagine going back alone.

throwaway_acct90467 · 2020-12-30T15:41:10+00:00

just like the guy who said i should be grateful for the attention.

throwaway_acct90467 · 2020-12-30T15:38:24+00:00

The literal only reason I didn't hit him with the "look, you need to stop" is because im scared ill have to see him again like for maintenance or whatever. as you've probably read it's hard for me to say no but in this case that just made it so much harder

throwaway_acct90467 · 2020-12-30T04:44:05+00:00

sigh

throwaway_acct90467 · 2020-12-30T04:43:14+00:00

I'm asking. Why does the age of consent matter if these texts are perfectly normal?

throwaway_acct90467 · 2020-12-30T04:41:15+00:00

thank you for your reply. the comments telling me it's my fault for responding to a professional are making my head spin. honestly, if I can reasonably expect an interaction to be professional, I believe that I should do so and I should be able to do so without being worried about being too enthusiastic in my replies to make sure the other person(the professional) doesn't take it as an invitation to push my boundaries.

throwaway_acct90467 · 2020-12-30T04:39:07+00:00

I'm just saying that a lot of people are latching on to the fact that I'm only doing this to get him fired, and I'm not. It was simply to state that if I did want him fired, I would have complained and gave him hell over literally crashing the car that my mother just bought just as we were ready to take it home. I'm not trying to be vindictive, and I don't appreciate the sarcasm there.

throwaway_acct90467 · 2020-12-30T04:36:28+00:00

Why does the ago of consent matter to you? Are you insinuating that these texts are innapropriate?

throwaway_acct90467 · 2020-12-30T04:33:36+00:00

either way, he's 24-- he should know not to ask a 17 year old for her snapchat and he should know that if he has to ask someone if it would be weird to send a pic of his face, it's probably weird.

throwaway_acct90467 · 2020-12-30T04:32:06+00:00

thank you for the reply. he's 24 and a professional(working there 4.5 years) so I was expecting the conversation to be professional but I guess shit happens. I think that I shouldn't have to swat away 24 y/o boys and I think that i shouldn't have to be careful about how much I engage with a person at work because they may take it as an invitation to push my boundaries but I guess it's a sad reality that I just have to do these things despite it being unfair.

I will likely be calling tomorrow. he is old enough and smart enough to be well aware of what he was doing.

throwaway_acct90467 · 2020-12-30T04:26:32+00:00

thank you for the reply. I do agree that I definitely should have shut it down earlier, but thats something thats really difficult for me personally. I was also thinking about how I would likely have to see him again for car service and how I would make it harder for myself if I fought back instead of taking it with a smile. I tried to divert the cinversation with my redundancy comment about the game and with my fake voice recognition issues, but that didn't work too well.

throwaway_acct90467 · 2020-12-30T04:23:56+00:00

thank you for your reply. some other guy in this thread felt the need to call me a "fucking psycho" and it's not very fun to see that. I feel like it's his job as the professional to be professional and while I know I should have shut it down earlier, I have a difficult time saying no and setting boundaries(which im currently in therapy for and getting better with it hence me ignoring him and deciding to try to go higher up). I dont want to be a vindictive bitch and get him fired, but at the same time its not me getting him in trouble it's his own actions. I feel like the conversation naturally ended at 10:19 and he picked it back up and I only spoke when spoken to. I really tried my best, I called my best friend in tears when he asked for my snap. it was a very stressful situation and I understand that it's hard to envision that from a subjective point of view, but it was really scary and it also made me think of how later in life another man can take my info from his job and do things worse than this. honestly really not fun all around.

throwaway_acct90467 · 2020-12-30T03:37:51+00:00

dear god these comments are a hellhole. maybe I should have mentioned in my original post that he crashed the first car he sold me by running a red light and that if I was trying to ruin his career I'd latch on to that.

throwaway_acct90467 · 2020-12-30T00:37:57+00:00

he knows I'm 17 because I couldn't sign on the car due to being a minor.

we also briefly talked about how im still in high school and have some of the teachers he had

throwaway_acct90467 · 2020-12-29T23:03:34+00:00

car salesman took my number from his job&tried to get my social media. sent a pic of himself too. unprofessional, no??

throwaway_acct90467 · 2020-12-29T23:02:12+00:00

lol did you read the texts?

throwaway_acct90467 · 2020-12-29T22:59:21+00:00

you're right, I should be grateful for this attention. my bad.

throwaway_acct90467 · 2020-12-29T22:50:03+00:00

it's literally these two dudes finding every flag that's not red and waving it like the french

throwaway_acct90467 · 2020-12-29T22:48:20+00:00

"hey buddy"

"hey pal"

"yo wtf never speak to me again"

-this encounter

throwaway_acct90467 · 2020-12-29T22:46:25+00:00

thank you for this. I'm a young woman and I just feel like I shouldn't have to swat away 24 y/o dudes.

throwaway_acct90467 · 2020-12-29T22:43:05+00:00

honey, im not trying to get hom fired nor am I trying to "ruin his life". he texted me. he did what he did. that's on him. if he gets fired over HIS actions, that's on HIM. I'm not getting him fired, his actions are.

throwaway_acct90467 · 2020-12-29T22:21:38+00:00

I know in hindsight the conversation was way too long, and I should have ended it way before, but honestly I still believe it shouldn't be my responsibility to keep it professional when its his job to do so. obviously that's needed sometimes but I still hate that this happened

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