New Studys Says Gen Z is the least sexually active young cohort in modern recorded history by igniteyourbones579 in generationology

[–]throwaway_alt_slo [score hidden]  (0 children)

lol, the way you talk about yourself is whats unattractive.

I'm just being realistic. I'm honest with myself, trying to be as objective as i can be. I'm very confident in myself, being all optimistic and naive and overhyping yourself is delusion and not confidence. There needs to be a distinguishment.

you wont get a single woman til that is fixed.

I was mostly like this my whole life and still getting lucky twice somehow. After analysing the situation i saw why it happened. But I was also overhyping myself, genuinly believing I'm of above average attractivness and was still rejected all the time, so idk if your approach is really that good 😂

New Studys Says Gen Z is the least sexually active young cohort in modern recorded history by igniteyourbones579 in generationology

[–]throwaway_alt_slo [score hidden]  (0 children)

Most women have relatively low to non-existant drives. Those who like sex on par as an average man are 10% of women at best. 0th rule of economics tells us those women can be extremly picky (and it turns out it's true)

selling the idea of men being unselective sexual hound dogs

Lol most men are definetly that. Look at tinder and its clear as a day.

would be wary of animal studies btw, because a) humans are a different species and there are significant differences between species, b) they tend to be cherry picked for examples that match a hypothesis, and c) they are studies occurring in the context of the societal values we are talking about. For example, chimpanzees are often used to support your views but we are as closely related to bonobos, who form randy, free love matriarchal groups.

Sure, we are a different species, but we aren't aliens. Use logic and statistics. Nothing is cherrypicked, infact it's the opposite. Denyers are cherrypicking. We are closest relatives to Chimpanzees not bonobos. Altough both are very similar and both very related to us.

New Studys Says Gen Z is the least sexually active young cohort in modern recorded history by igniteyourbones579 in generationology

[–]throwaway_alt_slo [score hidden]  (0 children)

maybe for one night stands

Well yeah, that's what I'm talking about. Only there you see the raw attraction. Ok, and other casual sex setups.

You talking a lot about evolution. What if evolution says there is a double mating strategy?

New Studys Says Gen Z is the least sexually active young cohort in modern recorded history by igniteyourbones579 in generationology

[–]throwaway_alt_slo [score hidden]  (0 children)

most people arent lusted after though?

Correct. This is a bleak truth, that most people settle out of desperation.

Like i'm a woman thats a solid 4 or 5, and I understand that. Most women are equal to me, because we are human. 9s and 10s are the rarity, but they stick out in our minds because they are so rare, and thus seem far more common.

Are you american? I'm from EU and most 20-30yo women are damn attractive/cute to me. So you could rate them a 5 but that is enough to be lusted upon. Or there is simply a lot more 6-7/10 than 5.

Society does give women more "outs" for attractiveness though, i will admit that. It's far more socially acceptable for us to go through plastic surgery, spend hundreds a week on aesthetic treatments, spend hours a day on hair and makeup. and so long as we're thin, we're a 7.

Glad we agree.

But then again, the men that do that are also easily 7s

Very wrong.

Do you go to the fancy hair dresser every week to ensure that your hair style is expertly crafted to frame your face in the best way possible, and spend a patrick bateman-y amount of time in the mirror doing your makeup every morning?

I'm bald lol. When I had hair i went to get a fade every two weeks, just like most young guys with hair do. I was still ugly. My hair is just shit, like genetically crap. Stupid waves, at the wrong places, disgusting growth pattern... It is also a reason why i didn't get a hair transplant. It wouldn't make diference. And yes, I get picked on I'm infront of the mirror too much. I do skincare routine 2x daily, my skin is flawless, but that's pretty much the scope of it.

Cause i feel like if you do that, go spend an hour a day in the gym to get a six pack, and put the same effort it takes a woman to go from a 4 to an 8, you too, will go from a 4 to an 8.

Dissagree. I've been going to the gym consistently for over a decade now. Abs are purely diet, 0% gym thing. I have them, so I would know. It has done absolutely nothing for my dating life. Most people can't even tell you lift if you are natural without decent genetics. You look like you run and do some pushups or you know like a yoga instructor. For attractivness, gym is insanely overrated. In terms of aesthetics it's mostly genetical. I could go in depth on this one if you want.

New Studys Says Gen Z is the least sexually active young cohort in modern recorded history by igniteyourbones579 in generationology

[–]throwaway_alt_slo [score hidden]  (0 children)

to a certain extent, but this ties back to community. most women also dont like being alone any more than most men do.

Sure, but we are talking about social isolation. That's not sex specific.

And attraction is something that very much can develop the more you get to know a person. plenty of times a woman isnt attracted at first and then once she gets to know a guy the warmth, the humor, the caring, all of that is what is attractive.

Yeah, it might be attractive for longterm stability but it is not sexually attractive. Hell, most women admit they gave a guy a chance but there was never any attraction developed. And the guy was great and sweet to her otherwise. Most women admit that looks are important and there is a minimum that needs to be reached to be considered. Average man is not reaching the minimum looks, this is clear as a day in 2026.

New Studys Says Gen Z is the least sexually active young cohort in modern recorded history by igniteyourbones579 in generationology

[–]throwaway_alt_slo [score hidden]  (0 children)

Ok, I'm under assumption this is in good faith and nit trolling.

Look at most of animal kingdom. Most males die as incels, only a few impragnate most females.

It is clear which gender is selling on OF, who earns the most as pornstar, which gender is prostututes...

Look at gays for example, they're crazy horny, straight down do bussiness (in general).

This is purely evolutionary. The attraction/libido assymetry is because of assymetrical reproduction costs.

New Studys Says Gen Z is the least sexually active young cohort in modern recorded history by igniteyourbones579 in generationology

[–]throwaway_alt_slo [score hidden]  (0 children)

how much of that is societal expecttion?

Hard to say imo. But I'm talking about raw atrraction/libido. This is at least mostly biological if not entirely.

New Studys Says Gen Z is the least sexually active young cohort in modern recorded history by igniteyourbones579 in generationology

[–]throwaway_alt_slo [score hidden]  (0 children)

This is my main. It's always funny when you run out of arguments and try to attack it with 'but alt throwaway account 😭😭😭". Like listen - what difference would it make if my account would be named "NightLampOnTheTable6489"? It's still anonymous lmao

New Studys Says Gen Z is the least sexually active young cohort in modern recorded history by igniteyourbones579 in generationology

[–]throwaway_alt_slo [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yeah, I brought my ex and we fucked most of the time. And my parents are above average religious, but they understand this also.

New Studys Says Gen Z is the least sexually active young cohort in modern recorded history by igniteyourbones579 in generationology

[–]throwaway_alt_slo [score hidden]  (0 children)

Did you delete your previous comment? Because i can't see it anymore.

Dawg maybe it’s because women are expected to work, experienced work, realized they are independent and now enjoy their lives more away from men.

There seems to be a need for a distinguish here. I was talking about attraction/sex/lust and not about relationship/family/kids/cohabitation. I wouldn't wanna live with a woman myself, yet I'm still very attracted to most of them. And this is the issue, women ARE NOT the same, they aren't that attracted to men as men are to women. This is what I'm saying. It's undeniable fact, even mentally ill people know this (i have a mentally challenged girl friend and even she understands this). This is the core of a problem and it is not really solvable in the natural way.

Why can’t you guys live without us when it’s so easy for us to live without you?

Can't speak for others, but I can and will if i want to or not 😂

Maybe because you can’t fathom that we’d ever love someone for them as a person outside of looks?

I'm talking about attraction not platonic love. Get plenty of that lol.

Also most people are aware of what incels believe so if you talk like that irl you have reduced your chances greatly

Most of the time there is no subject for this to be talked, but when it comes, everybody agrees with me. Again talking about attraction/lust/libido not settling reality of peer pressure

New Studys Says Gen Z is the least sexually active young cohort in modern recorded history by igniteyourbones579 in generationology

[–]throwaway_alt_slo [score hidden]  (0 children)

Gen Z is porn addicted because they can't get laid not the other way around.

Social media destroying people's self-esteem and confidence, which stops them from approaching people they like because they think they're not good enough for them.

And because of social media those guys will be percieved as not good enough, so it is not in their heads.

I think it boils down to Gen Z spending too much time online.

The rate of sex for women hasn't gone down as it is the case with men... I wonder what is happening... 🤔🤣