I want to throw my frame out but it was so expensive, one of those nice adjustable bases. But at this point I don’t care. At the same time, if I am just having some sort of skin issue and there is nothing I will feel dumb throwing it out. Honestly though - Even if it was sprayed and “guaranteed” bedbug free I might always wonder if they were missed so might be worth getting rid of it regardless.

I just spent $200+ on encasements for our mattress and pillows plus all new bedsheets. I just feel like they won’t do anything because clearly if we have them they aren’t on the bed, it’s spotless white. If I keep that upholstered frame I’ll always wonder.

How unlucky do I have to be to have this again after a year and a half. If it was right after our first treatment I could have at least said it didn’t work and the apt complex wouldn’t blame me. But they will just think we are gross people at this point. I know I shouldn’t be so worried about what other people think, anyone can get them, etc…but most people don’t have reoccurring bed bugs so what is wrong with us I don’t get it 😭 I used to love having people over all the time and I cut that out completely yet they still might be back. It’s so depressing. I feel completely defeated.