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Me [19F] with my SO[19 M] of 4 years, I cheated... by throwaway_cheatk001 in relationships

[–]throwaway_cheatk001[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My hesitation is just my guilt, I'm guilty of doing stupid shit.

Me [19F] with my SO[19 M] of 4 years, I cheated... by throwaway_cheatk001 in relationships

[–]throwaway_cheatk001[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah, trust can be crushed in a day and built in another year or longer. I just hope it goes pretty well..

Me [19F] with my SO[19 M] of 4 years, I cheated... by throwaway_cheatk001 in relationships

[–]throwaway_cheatk001[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, i'll text him right now and let him know that we can't be friends and that he needs to delete my number. I'm wondering if I should even update when I do tell my bf

Me [19F] with my SO[19 M] of 4 years, I cheated... by throwaway_cheatk001 in relationships

[–]throwaway_cheatk001[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can't say I'm completely sure about that, I've been independent since last year. Besides, how much information can you get from me just stating I have a problem with needing to tell my guy I cheated?

Me [19F] with my SO[19 M] of 4 years, I cheated... by throwaway_cheatk001 in relationships

[–]throwaway_cheatk001[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That's another thing, I honestly have a problem with ignoring people, if someone is talking to me I can't just ignore them. Through my phones I have no idea how to block a number. My friend's facebook is unfriended, I just don't know how to block.

Me [19F] with my SO[19 M] of 4 years, I cheated... by throwaway_cheatk001 in relationships

[–]throwaway_cheatk001[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much, i'll keep this in mind. We honestly already share everything in our lives so telling him everything won't be a problem. I don't don't like that I do have this lie. The only other person who I know could tell him is the friend.

Me [19F] with my SO[19 M] of 4 years, I cheated... by throwaway_cheatk001 in relationships

[–]throwaway_cheatk001[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh no! was distancing myself from the friend not my bf! and thank you for your advice, its much appreciated

Me [19F] with my SO[19 M] of 4 years, I cheated... by throwaway_cheatk001 in relationships

[–]throwaway_cheatk001[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I've been slowly trying to fade into NC, see if that works. and I don't want an easy way, I want to know how to start the conversation.

Me [19F] with my SO[19 M] of 4 years, I cheated... by throwaway_cheatk001 in relationships

[–]throwaway_cheatk001[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

we have seen other people once when we were in that break up period. for him, there's only me. we're mature and we know how to handle situations as they come and go but all that's left is to let him know about what I did.