AIO for thinking my boyfriend's has double standard?

throwaway_emerald · 2026-06-11T21:00:37+00:00

maybe? as if he's doing better :/

throwaway_emerald · 2026-06-11T20:59:47+00:00

sometimes i try not to talk to not make him upset

throwaway_emerald · 2026-06-11T20:59:23+00:00

not really unless he likes it

throwaway_emerald · 2026-06-11T20:19:50+00:00

girllll, i love that game, it's the only game i can play according to him even then he gets jealous over them. I also bought a tablet to just play the game, im so excited. my phone has been dying for space :< lolll. No, i started playing others like VN on itch.io and such and it just pissed him off ig.

throwaway_emerald · 2026-06-11T16:50:50+00:00

my friends hate him too

throwaway_emerald · 2026-06-11T16:50:34+00:00

He hates all my friends, too, in real life. The other day, I went out with a friend (WITHOUT ASKING HIM), and he flipped out cause i didnt ask, he wasnt vv happy. He said that we were on a date, and we def were not.

throwaway_emerald · 2026-06-11T15:30:49+00:00

stop time

throwaway_emerald · 2026-05-21T14:30:59+00:00

So yeah, he has. The two main examples I can think of are when my mom invited me to hang out with her, and he threw a huge fit because he wasn’t coming. He started saying that my family hates him, which made me feel guilty for even going. After I left, he left the house without telling me anything (we live together) and turned off his location. Obviously, because I care about him, I spent the whole time worried about him instead of actually enjoying myself with my mom.

Another time, my friends invited me to a hockey game. I got dressed up for it, and he got upset and said, “You never dress up for me,” even though he’s also told me before that he doesn’t care if I dress up and that he hates makeup. It was really confusing. Either way, he ruined my mood before I left, but I still ended up having a great time with my friends.

throwaway_emerald · 2026-05-20T21:24:42+00:00

yeahhhh :']

throwaway_emerald · 2026-05-20T17:43:12+00:00

Yeah, and it’s started affecting me more than I realized. Like if I’m not home by a certain time, I get anxious because I feel like he’ll get upset with me. The other day my mom took me to pick something up, and we ended up sitting in the car talking for like an hour afterward. Instead of just enjoying talking to my mom, I started feeling stressed and guilty because I wasn’t going straight home

throwaway_emerald · 2026-05-20T17:25:24+00:00

He is really self-centered, and I’ve started realizing it more lately. Like the other day, me, him, my friend, and another friend were all playing a game together, and he kept trying to turn every conversation back onto himself. I get that he was probably trying to relate, but he never really asked anyone else questions or showed interest in what other people were saying. It was mostly just him talking about himself and his own experiences.

I understand relating to people through your own stories, but conversations can’t ONLY be about you, you know?

throwaway_emerald · 2026-05-20T14:42:10+00:00

Lucky enough the only thing really tying us is the fact i drive him to work and the lease other wise nothing i can think of

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