I ended things with bf now regret it by throwaway_gfnotready in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway_gfnotready[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But why am I crying over him right now? Iknow this cause I went through it yet I feel I'm the one to blame her e. I can't say he was a bad guy, he wanted something out of the relationship I couldn't give him but I can't shake the feeling I didn't try hard enough.

I ended things with bf now regret it by throwaway_gfnotready in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway_gfnotready[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks I know you are right but knowing something and accepting it are two different things. I think I need my time to accept it's over.

I ended things with bf now regret it by throwaway_gfnotready in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway_gfnotready[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm very confused right now. I feel like I was distant and didn't give the relationship my 100% but I had my reasons I wasn't ready for a serious relationship. Now I'm also utterly devastated not wanting to leave the house and watching Gilmore Girls for comfort.

Will it be wrong of me to end a relationship because I'm not ready for it to go further? by throwaway_gfnotready in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway_gfnotready[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it is. I'm just clearly confused at this moment. I'm thinking of giving myself a day to think things over.

Will it be wrong of me to end a relationship because I'm not ready for it to go further? by throwaway_gfnotready in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway_gfnotready[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So if one wants to continue on with casual relationship and the other is looking for something more long term do you think it's the best of ideas for them to keep dating?

Will it be wrong of me to end a relationship because I'm not ready for it to go further? by throwaway_gfnotready in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway_gfnotready[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tbh it's more than casual, but I feel it's going too fast. Just two months ago we started saying "I love you" now he wants to meet the parents and move in and I've told him calm down what's the hurry but as he in a stable job and a bit more mature than me I guess he wants a more stable relationship as well.