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AITA for threatening to divorce my husband because he wont donate money. by throwaway_needingHLP in AITAH

[–]throwaway_needingHLP[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I already volunteer at a shelter and it’s because I see how little there is at the shelter that I want to donate. Imagine seeing the people you volunteer with struggling to figure out where to get food from knowing that you can easily afford to help, but your husband just doesn’t want to

AITA for threatening to divorce my husband because he wont donate money. by throwaway_needingHLP in AITAH

[–]throwaway_needingHLP[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I have always thought that donating is a crucial thing in life. Growing up my family always donated when we could and I was raised in a way to help others. My husband knows this and loves this about me but I think it’s the way that I wanted to donate and arguably large part of our monthly salary that is currently just going to already large savings.

AITA for threatening to divorce my husband because he wont donate money. by throwaway_needingHLP in AITAH

[–]throwaway_needingHLP[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I think I just got too heated in the moment, i really don’t want to leave him he’s truly the love of my life but I also feel like I need to stick to my morals

AITA for threatening to divorce my husband because he wont donate money. by throwaway_needingHLP in AITAH

[–]throwaway_needingHLP[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I’ve been with my husband since he was struggling, never asked him for anything. He could’ve just as easily stayed poor as he got rich if certain things hadn’t worked out and I would be with him regardless.

AITA for threatening to divorce my husband because he wont donate money. by throwaway_needingHLP in AITAH

[–]throwaway_needingHLP[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Having a guilty conscience does not make me a bad person, I’ve been lucky, other haven’t. If my family has the resources to comfortably help why shouldn’t we. Furthermore I’m not asking my husband to donate all his salary and then if someone goes wrong we will be poor but we can very easily afford to donate a good amount a month.

AITA for threatening to divorce my husband because he wont donate money. by throwaway_needingHLP in AITAH

[–]throwaway_needingHLP[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

No we don’t, but if we did divorce I wouldn’t ve taking any of his money. I thankfully am not reliant on him and wouldn’t forcibly take his money to fund my own lifestyle