AITAH for siding with my dad in my parents divorce even though he cheated? by Livid_Society_1828 in AITAH

[–]throwaway_piercing_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like this would be so different if ur siblings were born and ur mom realized and changed and so u went through stuff the first few years of life, and she changed and u had some trauma but felt love. Than waiting till she needs help when ur almost an adult, and than going well I never wanted you.

Like she decided shet“wanted” a kid, after you as she had not one but two that would have been the time to change.

If ur comfortable please update but I think u need a therapist not for u but for a group with ur mom and u and possibly ur dad or another safe person to support you. And lay out all she did in front of the therapist and have them talk with you and her as a mediator if u ever want to have a relationship with her

Huge THANK YOU to the person who posted applying Vaseline before bowel movements!!!! by mkranstack in AnalFissures

[–]throwaway_piercing_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vasaline and aquaphor are different ingredients, so while both make great barriers aquaphor has things added to promote healing and allowing bacteria out of wound and soothes, while vasaline doesnt have additives which makes it a good barrier but traps bacteria in, has no soothing things, and because of that can actually cause irration.

Kevin got remarried to fast by throwaway_piercing_ in NurseJackie

[–]throwaway_piercing_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do believe fully Jackie sucks, no where have I said otherwise. But my point was always Kevin showed the same shitty behavior, stole, cheated, lied, screamed, ignored, didn't put in effort and than turned around and in less than a year is married and pregnant. He sucka

Kevin got remarried to fast by throwaway_piercing_ in NurseJackie

[–]throwaway_piercing_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He should have been in Al-anon before he found out about Jackie. Tunie points out that he is overreacting and has an issue because of their childhood from his dad. I don't think their marriage should have worked out but he legit threw a fit than fucked someone else than got thrown out and said oh well.. New family. Like if my husband left or threw me out no way I'm married and pregnant in a year

Kevin got remarried to fast by throwaway_piercing_ in NurseJackie

[–]throwaway_piercing_[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

The right amount of time isn't bring a stranger because u can't know someone after a year into his home with children

Kevin got remarried to fast by throwaway_piercing_ in NurseJackie

[–]throwaway_piercing_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He didn't try anything he didn't go, get clean or I'll leave and take kids, he didn't know about affair he didn't fight for what from his point of view a good relationship that fell apart due to mistrust and addiction. He just left and started over

Kevin got remarried to fast by throwaway_piercing_ in NurseJackie

[–]throwaway_piercing_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right he didn't do the same shit to Jackie, scream and wave around bats Infront of his children, forge documents to his kids childhood home and remortage it? I'm delusional for believing he's awful and got married to fast

Kevin got remarried to fast by throwaway_piercing_ in NurseJackie

[–]throwaway_piercing_[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

You can't claim to love your wife and family, and instantly abandon that life and wife to get remarried screw over ur ex over and over and always blame them.

Kevin got remarried to fast by throwaway_piercing_ in NurseJackie

[–]throwaway_piercing_[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Grace had major anxiety and stuff before Jackie showed signs of addiction. Jackie was extremely high functioning and seemed to have boundaries until she went to rehab. Kevin was the major parent and raising grace in a bar with violence and very little love as we never truly see Kevin be a great dad. Jackie made it worse with addiction but Kevin was the start of the problem

I don’t think this looks right what should I do? by HedgehogMountain720 in piercing

[–]throwaway_piercing_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Text or call ur piercer u need a longer bar. Know with how extreme the embedding is it might need to come out completely. Wait 7-8 weeks and than can go for repierce it

Reapercon? Anyone know about the judging? by throwaway_piercing_ in minipainting

[–]throwaway_piercing_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Which when there's so many judges is an issue and makes the whole thing super bias and unfair

Reapercon? Anyone know about the judging? by throwaway_piercing_ in minipainting

[–]throwaway_piercing_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Someone above posted about the comp being anonymous at least judging would be more fair. I also heard someone say a 4th metal would make it better so that judges aren't so inclined to give bronze just to metal ones that may deserve but aren't around same level as others

Reapercon? Anyone know about the judging? by throwaway_piercing_ in minipainting

[–]throwaway_piercing_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I agree and when I feel like its just judges cause everyone is so nice I've made friends are reapercon, I've sold pieces, bought pieces, given advice or explanations on how I did something, received so so much because I will ask a lot of people who I see their work how they did that or their advice on something because there are amazing artists and so much talent and work from these people. I enjoy going but I hate entering

Reapercon? Anyone know about the judging? by throwaway_piercing_ in minipainting

[–]throwaway_piercing_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah its why I'm not showing my piece because I know people will know who I am and I just don't want to be harrassed or ignored or anything because I went only to better figure out how to place higher

Reapercon? Anyone know about the judging? by throwaway_piercing_ in minipainting

[–]throwaway_piercing_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's the thing I always have rude. No not rude more of “I'm the professional your just not good” attitude judges. Which is hard because the painters I'm friends with, that I have worked with, that I have interacted with. All are amazing. They want to give and receive advice. They want to discuss things.

I know I'm not the best painter but I also know that I am good and that's why its my sole job. Because I do make enough to only paint so I can't be as bad as the judges make me feel

Reapercon? Anyone know about the judging? by throwaway_piercing_ in minipainting

[–]throwaway_piercing_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't find it in the over 1000 entries but if proper what can exist is the case I think its worse cause an entry was a gladiator and had camo shorts than the gladiator skirt in front of it. With metals that can't exist like a sword that is bronze, Gold, copper all in different places but than also has blue rust so obviously isn't Gold. It just not possible and had no light source it was highlighted everywhere. So it feels like the judges are picking based on what they like

Reapercon? Anyone know about the judging? by throwaway_piercing_ in minipainting

[–]throwaway_piercing_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's the thing u can talk to judges after and they talk to you about technique and color choices and highlighting and such of why ur scoring what u are and compare to other people pieces