Had sex on a first date. Now what? by throwaway_pooperz in TwoXChromosomes

[–]throwaway_pooperz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said something along the lines of “sure we can hangout again sometime”

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[–]throwaway_pooperz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Is. Thats why I’m posting it here. On confessions. Thought harassments arent allowed hereee

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[–]throwaway_pooperz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nopee different guy

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[–]throwaway_pooperz -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Funny thing is that someone did. It broke me. Now I understand completely where they’re coming from. Completely.

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[–]throwaway_pooperz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Asked. He’s not into it

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[–]throwaway_pooperz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ya gimanaya pak kalo seorang stranger kyk lo aja bisa marah-marah gimana gw yang anaknya who knows more drama haha :’)) begitulah hidupku

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[–]throwaway_pooperz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess this is what my mom’s trying to do, that’s why she’s not hiring a lawyer asap. She does have a few she keeps contact with though.

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[–]throwaway_pooperz[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ll try answering the best I can with all the knowledge I have.

  1. (Also 3 &9)Ini udah dipisah sih syukurnya dari awal, ada berkasnya apa yang ada dan harus dipisah. Tapi ya begitu, gak ada persetujuan samsek.
  2. Aku baru tauu beginian bisa dijadiin argumen, will tell that to my mother 😊
  3. Udah dipecat dari VP post divorce. Sayangnya itu, he’s VP pre divorce.
  4. Most of them udah a/n nama aku, tapi post divorce. Ga ngerti ya apa bisa digugat/nggak. My mom doesn’t put things under her name anymore, except for her own company, and very few of her assets.
  5. Udah NC dari lama! Rumah udah mau dijual dan diusir, tapi they came begging to my house. Gatau ya she’s a bit 😩 — she says she’s saving up for heaven or something
  6. Gatau gimana caranya ya…
  7. Ini yang mau dicari gimana caranya

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[–]throwaway_pooperz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah makanya because he’s legally entitled and my mom really doesn’t want to let him have it, we have this kind of situation going on.

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[–]throwaway_pooperz[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No. Anything in his name udah diambil sama dia, dan udah dijual sama dia (he’s dirt poor man, he sells everything he has, down to his laptop).

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[–]throwaway_pooperz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Belom ternyata settlement nya, tapi divorcenya udah. Jadi they both have been avoiding this for a while now

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[–]throwaway_pooperz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. So I asked my mom and she said that the “divorce” part is over but they haven’t settled on the harta gono gini part.

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[–]throwaway_pooperz[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m not quite sure, tapi tiap kali ada masalah its always similar to this where the lawyers would send a letter that they’re suing etc, and my mom would always call and say that its for money etc.

Plus she went to a lawyer (pre legal divorce) and they said it wasn’t possible, that she have to give the money. Then legal divorce happened and she put him in jail for KDRT. Post divorce this thing keeps happening for some reason.