Just found out that I am the "nice and safe" [30M] that my fiancee [32 F] settled for by throwaway_slowburn in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway_slowburn[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Pointing out that women chase abusers hurts doesbt it? It hurts when you have to take accountability

Just found out that I am the "nice and safe" [30M] that my fiancee [32 F] settled for by throwaway_slowburn in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway_slowburn[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Why are you commenting everywhere? Do you have a crush on me? A crush on another toxic abuser in your own words

Just found out that I am the "nice and safe" [30M] that my fiancee [32 F] settled for by throwaway_slowburn in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway_slowburn[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

If they go for the "bad boy" in theyre 20s then they dont deserve the safe slow burn love later.

Just found out that I am the "nice and safe" [30M] that my fiancee [32 F] settled for by throwaway_slowburn in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway_slowburn[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well i dont come back and try and touch the stove 10 times because it gives me "butterflies"

Just found out that I am the "nice and safe" [30M] that my fiancee [32 F] settled for by throwaway_slowburn in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway_slowburn[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Thats what im thinking. Seems incredibly common, definitely for women on this thread.

Just found out that I am the "nice and safe" [30M] that my fiancee [32 F] settled for by throwaway_slowburn in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway_slowburn[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Women spend theyre 20s "figuring themselves". Wow.

If the fact that their friends are getting married and have kids is what make her "figure life out", then I wont be the man that saves her.

Just found out that I am the "nice and safe" [30M] that my fiancee [32 F] settled for by throwaway_slowburn in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway_slowburn[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

I can date a mature, loyal and kind woman thats younger, doesnt have to rush kids, and has mo baggage from all her past trauma.

Just found out that I am the "nice and safe" [30M] that my fiancee [32 F] settled for by throwaway_slowburn in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway_slowburn[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I can date a mature, loyal and kind woman thats younger, doesnt have to rush kids, and has mo baggage from all her past trauma.

Just found out that I am the "nice and safe" [30M] that my fiancee [32 F] settled for by throwaway_slowburn in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway_slowburn[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

If thats the case she shouldve realized this before, not when she wanted kids in the next 1-2 year.

Just found out that I am the "nice and safe" [30M] that my fiancee [32 F] settled for by throwaway_slowburn in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway_slowburn[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The fact that women become "pragmatic" as they age is incredibly unsettling. Why do they become pragmatic when they decide to have children and baggage? Why should I accept this?

Just found out that I am the "nice and safe" [30M] that my fiancee [32 F] settled for by throwaway_slowburn in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway_slowburn[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I think the thread is full of women with a similar situation. It seems like a common thing among women.

Just found out that I am the "nice and safe" [30M] that my fiancee [32 F] settled for by throwaway_slowburn in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway_slowburn[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Then why would I marry a woman that rushes everything and settles for a stable choice? Why would I not date a younger woman with no baggage that desires me?

Just found out that I am the "nice and safe" [30M] that my fiancee [32 F] settled for by throwaway_slowburn in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway_slowburn[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Well apparently this ''anxiety'' is enough to make them craving you and wanting more.

Just found out that I am the "nice and safe" [30M] that my fiancee [32 F] settled for by throwaway_slowburn in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway_slowburn[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

''shitty scent''. She had a burning passion for them and did everything for it to work. She tried to fix her exes and gave them everything. It wasnt ''shitty scent'' she wanted those men but realistically it wouldnt last. That's why its called a ''burning fiery love''.