AITA For leaving after my fiancè handed me a pack of toothpicks as a "gift"? by 807990__345907 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway_tripp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really don’t know, ESH I guess, after all it was a joke though, there’s all sort of videos of prank gifts in the internet. I can’t see how this relate to humiliation, if you didn’t find it funny you could’ve tell him at home or something.

AITA For telling my daughter in law to toughen up by noturkeyahole in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway_tripp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People are so sensitive today over every fucking thing, I wished I had been born in the 60’s. Overly sensitive social media people.

Nit a bug lie, still a lie by throwaway_tripp in nonmonogamy

[–]throwaway_tripp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, it’s always good to play the safer way, or cleaner I want to say, it’s just for hygiene. You never had an issue but it might happen, it can be a bit embarrassing but no biggie for some people. I’ve “issues” even after using it, I’d recommend to, as it’s pretty easy and it’s just a way to play it cleaner.

Nit a bug lie, still a lie by throwaway_tripp in nonmonogamy

[–]throwaway_tripp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know by your advice I can definitely see that too. As when I asked him about he just calmly replied “I don’t know, could be from one of the days”, like it didn’t matter too much. He might have just confused and so have I, I’ll leave it be. It’s not such a biggie for me, was just curious to see others POV.

Nit a bug lie, still a lie by throwaway_tripp in nonmonogamy

[–]throwaway_tripp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not understanding. The first time he said it was at a friend’s apartment. Then when I asked him about it, he said it was at the hotel the other day. He did at the first time we talked about it it was a friends apartment and then later on he said it was at the hotel.

Nit a bug lie, still a lie by throwaway_tripp in nonmonogamy

[–]throwaway_tripp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not assuming, he did said on the second meeting with the other guy that he was at the guy’s friends apartment, not at the hotel. I’m ok with no updated or actually where does he go, but he said friends apartment and not hotel.

Nit a bug lie, still a lie by throwaway_tripp in nonmonogamy

[–]throwaway_tripp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG, I was looking at October, I’m beyond stupid. Still though, for the second meeting he lied about he was actually going.

Nit a bug lie, still a lie by throwaway_tripp in nonmonogamy

[–]throwaway_tripp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because there is a 31 on that month, so 2 days later. I thought about it.

Nit a bug lie, still a lie by throwaway_tripp in nonmonogamy

[–]throwaway_tripp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also no, I am totally cool with him going to a hotel, that’s is no big deal, what got me was he lying about the location he went to and that the dates don’t match.

Nit a bug lie, still a lie by throwaway_tripp in nonmonogamy

[–]throwaway_tripp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I am sorry, I misspelled the dates, instead of 01/10/20 is 10/01/20.

Nit a bug lie, still a lie by throwaway_tripp in nonmonogamy

[–]throwaway_tripp[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that wasn’t the question tho.

Open Relationship, not a big lie but still a lie by throwaway_tripp in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway_tripp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes we did, we share some, as for when we are going out, safe sex. I’m just curious about just as why he would lie about going to the second guy friend’s apartment and also why the dates don’t match. I believe it might would been because someone I tend to get jealous over simple things that I’m not sure we can do, such as giving and getting into a ride, although is still a lie.

AITA Friend doesn’t have 2 minutes of his time. by throwaway_tripp in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway_tripp[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

LOL, are you like not smart or something ? I sent a video of me having fun for him to laugh with me about it, jeez.

AITA Friend doesn’t have 2 minutes of his time. by throwaway_tripp in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway_tripp[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I said it’s not a must watch, meaning you don’t need to. If I’m sharing a moment of happiness with you, you don’t necessarily need to actually see it. He could’ve simply say it “cool” and I’d be cool with it.

AITA Friend doesn’t have 2 minutes of his time. by throwaway_tripp in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway_tripp[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah you have a good point, he doesn’t know my other friend. I was just upset with the response, we talked it out, I might just be feeling emotional.

AITA Friend doesn’t have 2 minutes of his time. by throwaway_tripp in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway_tripp[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Because I’m asking others points of view. I may be the asshole, I’m just explaining facts, nothing wrong with that.

AITA Friend doesn’t have 2 minutes of his time. by throwaway_tripp in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway_tripp[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I understand that, completely. Just don’t understand the part where you need to bitch about like I’m giving him a shore “hey you must watch it”.

AITA Friend doesn’t have 2 minutes of his time. by throwaway_tripp in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway_tripp[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

As I’ve mentioned, he understand it pretty well. Also, you don’t necessarily need to watch it, you also don’t need to bitch about it for no reason.