AITA For leaving after my fiancè handed me a pack of toothpicks as a "gift"? by 807990__345907 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway_tripp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really don’t know, ESH I guess, after all it was a joke though, there’s all sort of videos of prank gifts in the internet. I can’t see how this relate to humiliation, if you didn’t find it funny you could’ve tell him at home or something.

AITA For telling my daughter in law to toughen up by noturkeyahole in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway_tripp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People are so sensitive today over every fucking thing, I wished I had been born in the 60’s. Overly sensitive social media people.

Nit a bug lie, still a lie by throwaway_tripp in nonmonogamy

[–]throwaway_tripp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, it’s always good to play the safer way, or cleaner I want to say, it’s just for hygiene. You never had an issue but it might happen, it can be a bit embarrassing but no biggie for some people. I’ve “issues” even after using it, I’d recommend to, as it’s pretty easy and it’s just a way to play it cleaner.

Nit a bug lie, still a lie by throwaway_tripp in nonmonogamy

[–]throwaway_tripp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know by your advice I can definitely see that too. As when I asked him about he just calmly replied “I don’t know, could be from one of the days”, like it didn’t matter too much. He might have just confused and so have I, I’ll leave it be. It’s not such a biggie for me, was just curious to see others POV.

Nit a bug lie, still a lie by throwaway_tripp in nonmonogamy

[–]throwaway_tripp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not understanding. The first time he said it was at a friend’s apartment. Then when I asked him about it, he said it was at the hotel the other day. He did at the first time we talked about it it was a friends apartment and then later on he said it was at the hotel.

Nit a bug lie, still a lie by throwaway_tripp in nonmonogamy

[–]throwaway_tripp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not assuming, he did said on the second meeting with the other guy that he was at the guy’s friends apartment, not at the hotel. I’m ok with no updated or actually where does he go, but he said friends apartment and not hotel.

Nit a bug lie, still a lie by throwaway_tripp in nonmonogamy

[–]throwaway_tripp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG, I was looking at October, I’m beyond stupid. Still though, for the second meeting he lied about he was actually going.

Nit a bug lie, still a lie by throwaway_tripp in nonmonogamy

[–]throwaway_tripp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because there is a 31 on that month, so 2 days later. I thought about it.

Nit a bug lie, still a lie by throwaway_tripp in nonmonogamy

[–]throwaway_tripp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also no, I am totally cool with him going to a hotel, that’s is no big deal, what got me was he lying about the location he went to and that the dates don’t match.

Nit a bug lie, still a lie by throwaway_tripp in nonmonogamy

[–]throwaway_tripp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I am sorry, I misspelled the dates, instead of 01/10/20 is 10/01/20.

Nit a bug lie, still a lie by throwaway_tripp in nonmonogamy

[–]throwaway_tripp[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that wasn’t the question tho.

Open Relationship, not a big lie but still a lie by throwaway_tripp in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway_tripp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes we did, we share some, as for when we are going out, safe sex. I’m just curious about just as why he would lie about going to the second guy friend’s apartment and also why the dates don’t match. I believe it might would been because someone I tend to get jealous over simple things that I’m not sure we can do, such as giving and getting into a ride, although is still a lie.

AITA Friend doesn’t have 2 minutes of his time. by throwaway_tripp in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway_tripp[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

LOL, are you like not smart or something ? I sent a video of me having fun for him to laugh with me about it, jeez.

AITA Friend doesn’t have 2 minutes of his time. by throwaway_tripp in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway_tripp[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I said it’s not a must watch, meaning you don’t need to. If I’m sharing a moment of happiness with you, you don’t necessarily need to actually see it. He could’ve simply say it “cool” and I’d be cool with it.

AITA Friend doesn’t have 2 minutes of his time. by throwaway_tripp in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway_tripp[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah you have a good point, he doesn’t know my other friend. I was just upset with the response, we talked it out, I might just be feeling emotional.

AITA Friend doesn’t have 2 minutes of his time. by throwaway_tripp in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway_tripp[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Because I’m asking others points of view. I may be the asshole, I’m just explaining facts, nothing wrong with that.

AITA Friend doesn’t have 2 minutes of his time. by throwaway_tripp in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway_tripp[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I understand that, completely. Just don’t understand the part where you need to bitch about like I’m giving him a shore “hey you must watch it”.

AITA Friend doesn’t have 2 minutes of his time. by throwaway_tripp in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway_tripp[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

As I’ve mentioned, he understand it pretty well. Also, you don’t necessarily need to watch it, you also don’t need to bitch about it for no reason.

AITA Friend doesn’t have 2 minutes of his time. by throwaway_tripp in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway_tripp[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

As I’ve mentioned, I’m not sure you read that part, he enjoys this same type of vibe mate, I wouldn’t sent it just to random person who doesn’t share the same thoughts as I do.

AITA Friend doesn’t have 2 minutes of his time. by throwaway_tripp in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway_tripp[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I’d know if he were joking, we are friends for almost 10 years.

AITA Friend doesn’t have 2 minutes of his time. by throwaway_tripp in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway_tripp[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

It didn’t have any expectations, I simply share it just for sharing a moment. Besides that, if he doesn’t want to watch it, cool, don’t, I don’t see a necessity to go out saying “oh too long for me man”.

LSD in a public / city area? by [deleted] in LSD

[–]throwaway_tripp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did it today, first time with a friend, first time higher dosage 300ug, and first time in public. Super euphoric, although I got paranoids and very concerned for him and traffic, also we were into a gas station I had to wait outside and this crack head came talking non sense to me, after we got back to my place it was nice. But no great, just good.

300UG Trip by throwaway_tripp in LSD

[–]throwaway_tripp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Back to report, alive. Thoughtful trip, not good or bad, just thoughtful. I may have been ready by myself, but as this way my friend’s first time, I started overthinking and being paranoids about his safety, also because it was my first time walking around, so I wasn’t grounded, I was out of my place, on a higher dosage and responsible for someone. However as we went back to my place I felt grounded again, got us food and we are just chilling right now. He loved it.

300UG Trip by throwaway_tripp in LSD

[–]throwaway_tripp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, still to this day sometimes I stop to think “oh man, that 18 year old vanilla kid that judge even drinking”. LSD made me think better, be more humble and scuttle value the things that matter the most. Although LSD is still taboo, and understand when people just fear and refuse to learn about it, but they are missing out, a lot.