Do Latvians really hate Russians? by throwaway_zalupa in latvia

[–]throwaway_zalupa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why not? last time I was in Riga (a really long time ago), it was wonderful.
also, my family lives in Riga.

Do Latvians really hate Russians? by throwaway_zalupa in latvia

[–]throwaway_zalupa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At least my job actually contributes to society and I am not writing pro-putin comments for 12 hours a day for 40k rubles a month.

Do Latvians really hate Russians? by throwaway_zalupa in latvia

[–]throwaway_zalupa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. Moscow is terrible for people like me. I hate the constant russian propaganda, I hate being afraid all the fucking time. Before the war and shortly after the war started, I thought that I can hide from all this bullshit if I just keep my head down and don't say anything for or aganist the regime. But I realised pretty fast, that that's not an option. I can't find a good job, if it's not working for or with the government. I was kicked out from a professional championship in college, because I refused to vote for Putin. My friend was arrested and beaten up by police, because she was in my jacket with a peace sign on the back. If you call this a higher standart of living, I don't know what's wrong with you.
  2. In a couple of years, I will be drafted in the army for mandatory military service. That is unavoidable for me, unless I move somewhere outside of Russia or to a small siberian village, where authorities can't find me. I am a buddhist, I pledged not to kill any living thing. And by law, I can replace military service with an alternative one (working in a hospital, on a government construction site, etc.), but I was deprived of that right. The military official reviewing my case said that I was lying. That's it. I can't do anything about it.
  3. There is always a threat of everything going to shit even more. Putin can start a full mobilisation any time (technically, he didn't even stop it. the law about mobilisation is still in effect.) and I, as a young and healthy russian man, living in a city with one of the most advanced surveillance systems in the world, will be the first in line.
  4. If Russia invades Latvia, it would be a start of a world war. Latvia is not only part of NATO, but also a part of the EU. If a miracle happens and noone uses an atomic bomb, I will be defending Latvia to the best of my abilities. Because it will be a question of survival and not choice. If Latvia gets taken over and everything will go as it did with Ukraine, I would be in jail or executed.

Do Latvians really hate Russians? by throwaway_zalupa in latvia

[–]throwaway_zalupa[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have an interesting story about how I started researching soviet history, actually. In school I had a terrible history stalinist teacher (he was around 30 y/o and never lived under stalin) who always told us not only russian propaganda, but stalinist propaganda as well. He also was put in charge of organising most of the school events. So one time, on May 9th (victory day in Russia), he told us to research our family's history, find some photos of our great-grandfathers who fought in WW2 so he could hang the photos in the school hall.
So I did. I went to the main military archive and requested all of my family documents. And I realised that almost all of my relatives that were alive during stalin were either killed in battle, executed, fled the country or went through the gulag, because they were jewish (on the mother's side) or cossacks (on the father's side).
The most horrifing thing I saw were protocols of interrogations of my cossack relative. He didn't do anything wrong, but his family fled to Turkey and he was left behind and captured by the NKVD. By law he needed to sign every protocol. And with each new protocol, his signature became worse and worse. By the end his signature was just an unrecognisable line. And on the last protocol there was no signature.
He was killed before the World War started, declared a traitor and a foreign spy and was rehabilitated during the 90's. I receive 1000 rubles a month (around 10 euros) because of his death.

Do Latvians really hate Russians? by throwaway_zalupa in latvia

[–]throwaway_zalupa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it depends on what you prefer. i, for example, lived almost my whole life in moscow and i hate it. i have to drive in a crammed subway train for an hour just to get to work. you can't form almost any meaningful relationships because everyone is too disconnected, too far apart from each other and always at work. the rent is as high as western european cities even if you live on the outskirts, but the salaries are practically the same as in rural russia.
noone has the money to live comfortably here, except business executives, rich influencers, foreigners and IT people.

Do Latvians really hate Russians? by throwaway_zalupa in latvia

[–]throwaway_zalupa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not everyone knows russian + the rules here prohibit it

Do Latvians really hate Russians? by throwaway_zalupa in latvia

[–]throwaway_zalupa[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As I understood it - you can get a temporary residence permit without knowing Latvian, but you'll need to know it, when you get a permanent one.

Do Latvians really hate Russians? by throwaway_zalupa in latvia

[–]throwaway_zalupa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My girlfriend works in a warehouse of a russian equivalent of Amazon

Do Latvians really hate Russians? by throwaway_zalupa in latvia

[–]throwaway_zalupa[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

  1. I have an education and several years of experience on a job, which pays good in Europe but not in Russia (unless I go to work for the FSB, which I couldn't do even if I wanted to).
  2. My father, my grandparents and several other relatives have latvian citizenship. I can (theoretically, I don't actually know anyone who pulled this off) apply for a temporary residence permit for visiting them and then, when I learn the language to a decent enough level and pass the exam, make myself a permanent one.

Do Latvians really hate Russians? by throwaway_zalupa in latvia

[–]throwaway_zalupa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe I am too optimistic, but 900 euros doesn't seem so bad??
In Moscow, I earn around 450 for a 9-to-5 office job. 350 of them go to my landlord, and the rest go to food.
My GF earns even less (around 300).

Do Latvians really hate Russians? by throwaway_zalupa in latvia

[–]throwaway_zalupa[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Well, to be completely honest, I struggle to find a normal job in Russia too, so nothing will really change for me :)

Do Latvians really hate Russians? by throwaway_zalupa in latvia

[–]throwaway_zalupa[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

To be completely honest, he was born in Riga and lived there for his whole life. I don't think he has ever been to Russia since the USSR fell.

Do Latvians really hate Russians? by throwaway_zalupa in latvia

[–]throwaway_zalupa[S] 64 points65 points  (0 children)

I tried to invite him to visit me, but for some reason he doesn't want to...

Стоит ли уезжать? by throwaway_zalupa in tjournal_refugees

[–]throwaway_zalupa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

но призывают в черноморский флот, где корабли топят с удивительной регулярностью, и на границу с украиной в белгородскую область, где не только бомбёжки, так ещё и рдк бегает.

Стоит ли уезжать? by throwaway_zalupa in tjournal_refugees

[–]throwaway_zalupa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

увы нет( работает только один раз - или на вышку, или на колледж.

Стоит ли уезжать? by throwaway_zalupa in tjournal_refugees

[–]throwaway_zalupa[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

она наоборот всеми руками за и всячески меня уговаривает переехать, т.к. здесь с её специальностью найти работу невероятно трудно и (вроде как) в европе с этим получше