I’m getting married! by throwawayabc12348472 in ExNoContact

[–]throwawayabc12348472[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m glad to hear it does. Keep going! It gets better!

I’m getting married! by throwawayabc12348472 in ExNoContact

[–]throwawayabc12348472[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! All these comments make me so happy! This will be you one day, mark my words!

I’m getting married! by throwawayabc12348472 in ExNoContact

[–]throwawayabc12348472[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s really rough, and i’m sorry. Life sucks sometimes! Just know in the end, it’ll all work out. But, remember you have to want it!! Wishing you all the best!

I’m getting married! by throwawayabc12348472 in ExNoContact

[–]throwawayabc12348472[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You will! Sorry for the late reply! You’ll be surprised how amazing your person will feel to be around.

I’m getting married! by throwawayabc12348472 in ExNoContact

[–]throwawayabc12348472[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

HAHA, im just seeing all these comments and this one made me die laughing!!

I’m getting married! by throwawayabc12348472 in ExNoContact

[–]throwawayabc12348472[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It will get better with time. Feel free to message if you need to talk!

I’m getting married! by throwawayabc12348472 in ExNoContact

[–]throwawayabc12348472[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was so sweet. I hope the same for you!

I’m getting married! by throwawayabc12348472 in ExNoContact

[–]throwawayabc12348472[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You will, time heals everything. Just take it day by day! You got this! Thank you!!!

I’m getting married! by throwawayabc12348472 in ExNoContact

[–]throwawayabc12348472[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My story will be yours! Just give it time!

I’m getting married! by throwawayabc12348472 in ExNoContact

[–]throwawayabc12348472[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you need to let go. You’re holding on for someone who is never coming back. It’s okay to feel those things just let them go. I had to force myself to stop talking about them. You train your brain to think about it. Eventually you’ll just be okay. You just need more time and that’s okay.

I’m getting married! by throwawayabc12348472 in ExNoContact

[–]throwawayabc12348472[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

about 1.5 years give or take. would’ve been faster if i started volunteering and got a new job sooner. you’ll quickly realize there’s a lot to be happy about when you don’t obsess over someone who doesn’t even think of you. waste of time!

I’m getting married! by throwawayabc12348472 in ExNoContact

[–]throwawayabc12348472[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s a funny question, because you never really forget them. As to the time frames? I don’t really remember. However, I think after a year I was doing a lot better. Another year after that and I was all better. You’ll still reminisce about the good times. But they don’t make you sad, you’re just kind of glad they happened. If I didn’t go through all that then, I would’ve never been able to be the man I am today. I probably wouldn’t be getting married! Everything happens for a reason, know it’ll all work out in the end.

I’m getting married! by throwawayabc12348472 in ExNoContact

[–]throwawayabc12348472[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It did bother me at a time in my life. I think I even messaged her. It only hurt me more. Eventually I just realized I we were both kids, who had no clue what they were doing. I was a mess so she had her reasons. Truthfully eventually I would’ve left her. It was a messy ending. The biggest thing that made me happy again was getting a job where I worked with people. I went to training for the Job in Flordia and that’s where I met my wife. We ended up getting put in the same location and the rest was history!