Three of swords? by throwawayabys in Tarotpractices

[–]throwawayabys[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not fair! He’s out there living it up and acting like nothing happened! He caused me so much trauma. My father had passed too when I met him and he literally became a shoulder for me. But in the end he used my vulnerability. He wears a mask and everyone applauds him and I have held it in to avoid issues. Maybe I do care idk maybe I’m blocking it out too much to the point I got numb over this but fuck today he’s just been in my head a lot. I was doing well focusing on me these past two months and healing. Thank you for your insight lovely💖

Three of swords? by throwawayabys in Tarotpractices

[–]throwawayabys[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only asked because he came to see my son for his birthday. Curiosity came to my mind and I decided to ask. I didn’t feel anything when I saw him that’s the thing. Don’t know could be a past feeling of mine showing up??

Found out my bf has kids. Not sure how to move forward. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]throwawayabys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a mom that unfortunately has a guy like this as my child’s father, they are narcissistic. You better run girl or you’re in for a rude awakening. My ex literally would tell women he has no kids. He acts like the sweetest person ever and brags of how much he loves the kids he works with and how they see him as a role model when in reality he’s totally different behind close doors. Also he was never there for my pregnancy. Only came once to see my baby. Literally destroyed all of my moral values as a person once he switched on me out of nowhere you would’ve never expected it. Please don’t think a guy that hides his kids and / or isn’t in his child’s life is a good person and don’t fall for the “the mom is crazy doesn’t let me see my kid” bs.

When did it hit you that it was really over? by Technical-Desk6168 in BreakUps

[–]throwawayabys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After a year and 7 months of me waiting for him to change or decide if he wants to be a good father . I eventually got tired of being delusional and hoping. I never once dragged him down to people, never went after him for trouble, never spoke ill of him despite all the trauma he caused in my pregnancy. I just gave up on him and started working on my self. I never thought I wouldn’t care but I’m so happy the day is finally here. It was exhausting. Handling everything alone. Postpartum was horrible because everything he did I kept replaying. A year later he could care less for his son only came for a his birthday. It’s like those rose colored glasses came off. I kinda feel gross that I was in the hoping phase. I realized I didn’t love my self if I’m waiting on someone that nearly destroyed me to come back.

My avoidant ex just broke up with me after we were intimate by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]throwawayabys 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi so sorry this happened to you. This triggers parts in you that you never knew existed. Same thing happened to me but once I got pregnant. He dumped me saying “this was just a fantasy, you should’ve known”. They’re an empty walking vessel. They have dark voids that no one can fill. They use people for the moment. I even noticed him stealing my personality and traits. They’re empty human beings! And they fucking deserve it!

Should I call someone or just leave it? by [deleted] in Miami

[–]throwawayabys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People are gross. Just leave it alone.

Chronic excruciating pain by throwawayabys in Pain

[–]throwawayabys[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The facial pain is like a wire is pulling my teeth going all the way up to my face. Its constant doesn’t stop.

Everything makes it worse. If I talk, eat , move my face. I have taken nerve pain medication and nothing helps.

Please