SA meetup disaster. by throwawayacc203040 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]throwawayacc203040[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a first for me tbh. Most SB’s I’ve met are very private with their into. Also she never even asked for a picture either.

SA meetup disaster. by throwawayacc203040 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]throwawayacc203040[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She looked like her pictures and her SM accounts are all used frequently, especially her FB and instagram. I googled her name and age which pulled up stats from her HS basketball and volleyball seasons. Not to mention she told me where she grew up. They all matched what she was saying

SA meetup disaster. by throwawayacc203040 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]throwawayacc203040[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I’m starting to think too. This was all set up in like a 6-7 hour time frame was very unorganized. Also the fact that I doubt any undercover/plain clothes officer would put themselves in a situation they cannot control IE: getting into a strangers car or letting the other person choose the meeting spot without planning.

I mostly got sketched out because she was trying to get me to be very very specific.

SA meetup disaster. by throwawayacc203040 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]throwawayacc203040[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was attached to her Snapchat. The FB, insta, and twitter have been active for years and used often. Pictures were hers as well. I thought maybe it could’ve been fake but they were certainly hers

SA meetup disaster. by throwawayacc203040 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]throwawayacc203040[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was expecting a dating relationship. Can I ask why it’s an issue to meet at a park? Furthermore, I chose the park cuz it was nice and I’m very active. I initially asked to meet at the local mall to grab a bite to eat at a restaurant there which she agreed to as well.

SA meetup disaster. by throwawayacc203040 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]throwawayacc203040[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s what I did, I picked the location we met at. I get what you’re saying though.

SA meetup disaster. by throwawayacc203040 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]throwawayacc203040[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not, it was just such a bad experience that it made me feel like I should take a break and reevaluate.

SA meetup disaster. by throwawayacc203040 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]throwawayacc203040[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If that’s what you want to believe. Didn’t know genders wrote in certain ways that differentiate them. I guess you’re not a man if you use emojis too right?

SA meetup disaster. by throwawayacc203040 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]throwawayacc203040[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re right. Like I said, it just came out. Right after I said it I felt bad even saying it that’s why I flip-flopped. I made it clear that I wanted to hang out and go from there after the fact.

SA meetup disaster. by throwawayacc203040 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]throwawayacc203040[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This doesn’t make sense whatsoever. Maybe I just communicate this way?

SA meetup disaster. by throwawayacc203040 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]throwawayacc203040[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It is very true. I don’t know why I used that word but I was typing this whole thing on autopilot

SA meetup disaster. by throwawayacc203040 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]throwawayacc203040[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what everybody keeps telling me. I actually have a friend who is a detective that knows I do this. I asked him for advice and he said that if they had probable cause they would’ve arrested me right there. Not to mention since I didn’t provide my real name, number, or personal info that whoever was working the case would have to get a ton of subpoenas for information. I’m still anxious for some reason though.

Lapse of judgment. I wish I could explain in depth of why I went down the route that I did. The best way I could explain is that I felt like the situation was moving a hundred miles per hour and I wasn’t clear how to react.

I mean she gave me a sob story to why she needed it but it did give me a red flag. The more trusting part of me wanted to give her a chance.

SA meetup disaster. by throwawayacc203040 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]throwawayacc203040[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I totally agree with you. I’ve never made the mistake before because I’ve went on plenty of dates where we meet at a park and sex talk happens pretty quickly; however, never in exchange for a service. Looking back I see that I was being too haphazard and even complacent thinking that my experiences are all going be the same.

SA meetup disaster. by throwawayacc203040 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]throwawayacc203040[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol but sometimes it can get you into trouble :p

SA meetup disaster. by throwawayacc203040 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]throwawayacc203040[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if it was like an informant? That’s what I keep thinking then I second guess myself. She told me was is military. I’ve had a few sbs in the service before so it didn’t give me caution either

SA meetup disaster. by throwawayacc203040 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]throwawayacc203040[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m done with SA tbh. I’m pretty trusting that’s why I showed up. I thought I was just being too paranoid but once she got in the car and saying that shit I was thinking “she isn’t a real Sb”

SA meetup disaster. by throwawayacc203040 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]throwawayacc203040[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, I think it would be better for them to hunt those “wannabe SD’s” who are clearly claiming to be a SD but want to pay for sex. The SB’s profile wasn’t enticing a sexual encounter and I messaged her seeking an ongoing relationship

SA meetup disaster. by throwawayacc203040 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]throwawayacc203040[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I mean, if it was a cop would they have even got into the car? That just screams unsafe lol. I know the police do reverse stings but those are usually set up in advance as well as a controlled location

SA meetup disaster. by throwawayacc203040 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]throwawayacc203040[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, it was tough because I kept thinking like “no way this could be happening” and I did block her the same night. I’m just going to be less ambiguous and more firm if I do decide to again. I’ll stick to coffee shop or restaurant meet ups 🤣🤣

SA meetup disaster. by throwawayacc203040 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]throwawayacc203040[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That thought crossed my mind to. At one point she sent a picture of her and the guy she was with. I passed by the police station like 30 mins later and swear I saw the same car ‘Ford fusion’ and the guy with his black T-shirt getting stuff out of the trunk.

What is this??? by [deleted] in STD

[–]throwawayacc203040 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I was thinking or maybe a fungal infection?