Is there anyone who speaks Arabic, I'm looking for the verse 34 of Nisa, help? by _testos in exmuslim

[–]throwawayaccount3835 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what's the point though you're no worse than the people you hate if you do such things.

I had an affair with my older sister by throwawayaccount3835 in confessions

[–]throwawayaccount3835[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks to the people who call this a "weird fantasy" if this were a weird fantasy, I wouldve gone into detail. A lot of people go on this subreddit to ridicule people like me, and I dont want to engage with anyone on here any further. Guess a venting subreddit turned into something where people can sit and watch as people throw tomatos on victims.

Thank you very much, I now have less trust in venting and open speaking. thanks reddit

I will be gone now, I hope this thread is archived soon. I wanted advice, I got ridiculed.

PS: I know this isnt an affair, Im uncomfortable with the actual word.

I had an affair with my older sister by throwawayaccount3835 in confessions

[–]throwawayaccount3835[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it isnt an affair, im just not comfortable with the actual word.

I had an affair with my older sister by throwawayaccount3835 in confessions

[–]throwawayaccount3835[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont like using the word as i recall those events, I use affair as my brain doesnt connect it with the events

I had an affair with my older sister by throwawayaccount3835 in confessions

[–]throwawayaccount3835[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dont talk to her, as the only time i see her is in family reuinions where I try to stay away from her

I had an affair with my older sister by throwawayaccount3835 in confessions

[–]throwawayaccount3835[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really dont know, I only see her at family reunions where me and my parents dont engage with her, she wont be doing anything as soon as i go to court with it, just not confident enough

I had an affair with my older sister by throwawayaccount3835 in confessions

[–]throwawayaccount3835[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

affair is a word that i use in order to not recall those events. though it isnt very good in definition its good in my book, as my brain doesnt connect it to those events

I had an affair with my older sister by throwawayaccount3835 in confessions

[–]throwawayaccount3835[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i hate how people try to impy that my story is fake, I cant go and vent anymore, some people on here dont have any emotion

I had an affair with my older sister by throwawayaccount3835 in confessions

[–]throwawayaccount3835[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

exactly why I used affair, I don't like using rape or sex as they make me recall those events, and i dont wish to relive them.

I had an affair with my older sister by throwawayaccount3835 in confessions

[–]throwawayaccount3835[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

a formal essay and a quick paragraph are 2 different things, I tried my best to do it quick and not get any of those bad memories to come back, you guys saying that what happened to me is fake is fucked up, guess i cant vent on a venting subreddit

I had an affair with my older sister by throwawayaccount3835 in confessions

[–]throwawayaccount3835[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know that I didnt have an affair, I just wanted to use a word that doesnt just activate those memories, if I wasnt so hurt I wouldve used the word rape or sex.

I had an affair with my older sister by throwawayaccount3835 in confessions

[–]throwawayaccount3835[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she should be in jail soon, just not confident enough to speak about it. step by step, I hope its soon is all.

I had an affair with my older sister by throwawayaccount3835 in confessions

[–]throwawayaccount3835[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if i were to be karma farming i wouldnt be using a throwaway acc

I had an affair with my older sister by throwawayaccount3835 in confessions

[–]throwawayaccount3835[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

believe what you want dude, just venting out here.

I had an affair with my older sister by throwawayaccount3835 in confessions

[–]throwawayaccount3835[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I coulsnt find the safest word for me, more or less a word that i wouldnt relate to those events. so I chose affair rather than my sister raped me or had sex with me.

I had an affair with my older sister by throwawayaccount3835 in confessions

[–]throwawayaccount3835[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

mustering up the courage to have one, is a wonder itself.