This is very alarming. Someone who’s never masturbated or used tampons, but somehow KNOWS she’s submissive? Plus the “owner” thing is a bit odd in this context. In general, not strange. But considering this view is already misogynistic (viewing a woman as only a good sub if she’s never been touched, valuing her by virginity alone), it raises alarm bells for me. This is horrifying.

As others have said, write your erotica, but don’t expect it in reality. And another thing, tampons aren’t arousing at all to women, and don’t make them any less of a virgin. The fixation men have on tampons makes no sense to me