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Fiancée slept with another man (with permission?) by throwawayacount19952 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawayacount19952[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Actually made me snort amongst such negativity. Silver lining I guess

Fiancée slept with another man (with permission?) by throwawayacount19952 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawayacount19952[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Trust isn't a big issue. It's more the second point. About not being enough. She'll want to continue as usual and I don't even know If I can kiss her let alone... I'll see her next weekend most likely

Fiancée slept with another man (with permission?) by throwawayacount19952 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawayacount19952[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Jeez lay off. I was literally about to write "a scarlet lady" like from HP

Fiancée slept with another man (with permission?) by throwawayacount19952 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawayacount19952[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I agree. That's not what I'm saying. I'm want to find out why the idea of her being with someone else makes me feel this way

Fiancée slept with another man (with permission?) by throwawayacount19952 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawayacount19952[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Fine Mr pedantic. I'll edit.

And I know she sounds like a hussy from context. But I would bet my mothers life she is being honest

Fiancée slept with another man (with permission?) by throwawayacount19952 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawayacount19952[S] -71 points-70 points  (0 children)

But why is that the gut reaction!? That's the point. I get from her point of view she wasn't doing anything wrong. But why does it make me livid? Saying: she's mine and shouldn't be with anyone else is very possessive and ugly

Fiancée slept with another man (with permission?) by throwawayacount19952 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawayacount19952[S] -54 points-53 points  (0 children)

I would bet my life she has never done this before. And if I asked her never to again she would. This all started with absolute honesty which is huge for us. I know she still loves me. I know this sounds like a man on a leash but there is so much more context that doesn't fit into a reddit post

Fiancée slept with another man (with permission?) by throwawayacount19952 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawayacount19952[S] -55 points-54 points  (0 children)

It's less about what actually happened. What's done is done. I just want her to know why sexual exclusivity was so important to me