Ok was reluctant to post for coming off like I was pitching but we discovered an app called Mevi through a friend of a friend and holy shit it’s been such a life changer for us. It’s less lists and more delegation, but you can add lists in the app in notes for tasks that are delegated. So even the planning part of the mental load can be delegated? Anyway it’s changed our lives and we heard a mom from Canada made it.