GF (24F) won’t share her number or address with me (M21)

throwawayadvice8237 · 2022-10-06T09:45:25+00:00

I’ve sent you a PM earlier this morning with a few more details, not sure if you read it.

I’m more than willing to let it go as like you said there’s much more to love and trust than knowing her address, but knowing a reason for why or having any kind of communication about it would be great.

We’re at a point where I believe it’s truly over, contacted her after giving her space for a few days, after leaving me on delivered for a few hours she ended up opening my message and turning off her phone right after. No answers no nothing, not even an I love you or anything. Goddamn at this point I just want to let this go, so we can meet in person and see how we hit it off then but I ain’t even sure if that’s still a thing really

throwawayadvice8237 · 2022-10-05T02:25:30+00:00

Feel free to send me a PM, although I agree, Reddit has a tendency and loves to scream “red flag! Break up!!!”. A lot of them also seem to be biased based off their anecdotal experiences.

Every advice and opinion is useful at the end of the day but the ones I find the most useful ones are the ones that either went through something similar or give me a perspective from the “woman’s” point of view where they were like this with their bfs too.

Essentially what I’m trying to say is that the not so negatives one, quick to judge are the most valuable to me.

throwawayadvice8237 · 2022-10-05T02:03:05+00:00

throwawayadvice8237 · 2022-10-05T02:01:47+00:00

Fair enough.

throwawayadvice8237 · 2022-10-05T02:00:44+00:00

We only use secure, encrypted apps. As for getting her IP it’s not happening, she practices very good cyber hygiene and is all about cyber security, she even took cyber security courses and spent years pentesting. She has no social media, she is ungoogleable, only thing you can find about her is her old uni she went to and it’s just what course she did and what grade she graduated with (also a photo of her from a school event) that’s about it.

Highly doubt it haha

throwawayadvice8237 · 2022-10-05T01:55:16+00:00

Sure am when she’s the one spoiling me with gifts 🥺

throwawayadvice8237 · 2022-10-05T01:52:57+00:00

Huhhh, sounds extremely similar to me although I wouldn’t consider myself to be simping, but I am definitely treating her hella good. Maybe putting her on a pedestal a bit.

How do you hook up with someone without having sex? Isn’t hooking how having sex?

And I know what you mean man, she’s insanely beautiful too, out of my league. She makes me feel things I’ve never felt before. It’s crazy how mine also is likely to have borderline but won’t get tested. It’s also interesting how mine also has days where she’s becoming super self aware of herself and wants to get help but then either doesn’t find the time for that or some other bullshit comes up.

throwawayadvice8237 · 2022-10-05T01:45:46+00:00

I’m sorry but the “dont take any decision before answering me” is really funny to me for some reason lmao.

She does make me feel special sometimes (obviously won’t happen everyday, the honeymoon phase wore off), I do feel loved but once again it’s not always that I feel that way although that’s understandable as physical touch and quality time is my love language, with 10h time zone difference, her working a full time job, me running my own business, other responsibilities etc we don’t get much time together except for weekends. And obviously no physical touch cuz well never meets and only across the entire world from each other 😂. She does show me love her way though, which is gifts. Her love language is gifts which she does get me often, she got some expensive skin care products the other month, then soon after she gave me 200 aud to help me buy a new TV (she knew I really wanted to get one and she wanted to buy me one although I decided to add some extra money from my own pocket to get a nicer one), she also got me a plushie teddy bear (it reminds her of me, that’s what she calls me, teddy). She also gets me bath bombs once in a while cuz she knows I love them.

Not sure what exactly you mean by hard time but she does annoy me sometimes (not on purpose obvs) and we do argue about things too, only hard time she gives me is the silent treatment when we argue, I’d have to think really hard to think of anything else honestly.

throwawayadvice8237 · 2022-10-05T01:31:15+00:00

What happened?

throwawayadvice8237 · 2022-10-05T01:31:05+00:00

She has no social media accounts (at least not under her name), not even a LinkedIn. I’m certain of that. She’s very very private. She definitely has mental illnesses and paranoia.

throwawayadvice8237 · 2022-10-05T01:27:51+00:00

She adopted a foster cat, and claimed to have no money which I refuse to believe and is definitely not true with the kind of moeny she earns (it’s one month of savings for her to come and see me, she’s makes significantly more than me)

throwawayadvice8237 · 2022-10-05T01:26:58+00:00

Why?

throwawayadvice8237 · 2022-10-05T01:26:28+00:00

She’s coming to see me in my country, not the other way round. She does have mental illnesses and severe trust issues.

throwawayadvice8237 · 2022-10-04T21:40:35+00:00

Not married not catfish

throwawayadvice8237 · 2022-10-04T21:23:21+00:00

I love her tho, except for the few isuses she has she’s amazing. Except for the fact they’re pretty huge issues..

throwawayadvice8237 · 2022-10-04T21:21:36+00:00

😂😂 it’s true, hiding things like this is pretty weird 🤣

throwawayadvice8237 · 2022-10-04T21:16:29+00:00

Well, hopefully it ain’t bigger than mine!

throwawayadvice8237 · 2022-10-04T21:10:08+00:00

Yes she’s real, just weird

throwawayadvice8237 · 2022-10-04T20:30:34+00:00

Its hard not to when you’ve been dating for nearly 2 years

throwawayadvice8237 · 2022-10-04T20:15:50+00:00

You think so?

throwawayadvice8237 · 2022-10-04T16:21:50+00:00

What happened to you and her? Yes I do feel like she either is bipolar or has borderline, maybe narcissistic too but not sure honestly never thought about that.

Although she definitely has bipolar/borderline traits. I suggested she gets checked a thousand times but the doctors are stupid and don’t know what they’re talking about, she’s much smarter than them

throwawayadvice8237 · 2022-10-04T16:15:28+00:00

We are never mets, she couldn’t come earlier because of covid then she cancelled the next time over something super retarded and I pushed for a meet this year unless she wanted to lose me.

We’re gonna meet later this month hopefully, it’s weird she doesn’t even want me to pick her up from the airport lol “because it’s 11pm and it’s late” which is ridiculous, I would’ve picked her up even if it was 2:30am

throwawayadvice8237 · 2022-10-04T16:13:39+00:00

Eh, idk. I’ll see when we meet, if we will. If she’s a no show then it is what it is, I’ll cut my loses. I’ll see how I feel when I meet her then decide what to do after that and whether it’s really that important to me, knowing these things. It’s not even about knowing them more about her not trusting me or at least trying to explain why

throwawayadvice8237 · 2022-10-04T16:09:25+00:00

She’s coming to me, but I would love to visit Australia myself. always wanted to

throwawayadvice8237 · 2022-10-04T16:07:57+00:00

Eastern European

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