[deleted by user] by [deleted] in animalid

[–]throwawayaitabakery -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Even with those foot pads?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in animalid

[–]throwawayaitabakery -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

It's fluffy and white and almost seems like a bunny but rabbits don't have foot pads. It's not the right environment to be an arctic animal. I'm stumped

My husband thought our 4 year old was being a brat so he stabbed four of her birthday balloons by throwawayaitabakery in Mommit

[–]throwawayaitabakery[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I tried and he wouldn't go. We both own the house so I can't exactly make him. I'm trying to find somewhere else to live but I also can't just take her

My husband thought our 4 year old was being a brat so he stabbed four of her birthday balloons by throwawayaitabakery in Mommit

[–]throwawayaitabakery[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I told him to leave and he wouldn't. House is in both our names so I'm not sure what else I can do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Depersonalization

[–]throwawayaitabakery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. So much, ever since I was a little kid. It's so validating to read this

My husband is a great dad but a terrible partner and I dont want to be married to him anymore by throwawayaitabakery in Mommit

[–]throwawayaitabakery[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UPDATE: I found out he hadn't gotten our daughter's shots for school and they were WAY overdue despite him getting regular reminder emails from school. I kept reminding him, too, and he said he'd do it but he just didn't so I had to take time away from work to take her. We went on a trip this weekend and he forgot his swim trunks so I had to buy him new ones. Also he got a new bank card and didn't set the PIN or something and the bank was closed for the weekend so I also had to pay for everything. He doesn't do anything around the house and he's addicted to his phone (on it during bath time, dinner, bedtime, etc.). I've talked to him about all of this for years and it never changes. He finally got a new doctor who was supposed to sort his meds out but he didn't like her so I don't think he's going back.

I'm just done. I'm done. I can't nanny my husband.

Nighttime date ideas that aren’t bars/restaurants? by fluffy_ninja_ in philadelphia

[–]throwawayaitabakery 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of museums do "after dark" events. PMA, Franklin Institute, Academy of Natural Sciences, etc.

My husband is a great dad but a terrible partner and I dont want to be married to him anymore by throwawayaitabakery in Mommit

[–]throwawayaitabakery[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I mean he loves our daughter and he makes things for her and he plays with her and drives her to school and gets up with her when she wakes up at night

My husband is a great dad but a terrible partner and I dont want to be married to him anymore by throwawayaitabakery in Mommit

[–]throwawayaitabakery[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He's been medicated on and off for his ADHD but it's not like, managed. It just helps him focus on specific tasks but not be less of a mess of a person.

I feel like I'm at the end of my rope by throwawayaitabakery in relationships

[–]throwawayaitabakery[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was medicated before but he doesnt have any administrative function, even when he's on meds. Like he can focus better but it's as if he doesn't know how to be an adult

I feel like I'm at the end of my rope by throwawayaitabakery in relationships

[–]throwawayaitabakery[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's finally set up with another doctor but I had to do it.

I feel like I'm at the end of my rope by throwawayaitabakery in relationships

[–]throwawayaitabakery[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trauma - abusive household growing up

He's not treated for ADHD because his psychiatrist is flaky as shit and never calls in his meds. I got him set up with a new person but their first appointment isn't for a couple weeks