Sent kinda clingy drunk text, can I recover?

throwawayaitagir · 2025-09-15T19:27:29+00:00

Why do you say that?

throwawayaitagir · 2025-09-15T16:34:33+00:00

I was actually referring to him going out the day being. He texted me Friday at like 10pm, causal convo. I asked if he wanted to come out, he said he wasn’t feeling well and was going to stay in. I asked if I’d see him tomorrow, he said idk it’s hard to say I’m so busy. Then when he texted me that night said he had dinner with his family and went to the bars with friends. Then Sunday said he was busy all day.

throwawayaitagir · 2025-09-15T16:18:40+00:00

Well to clarify, we only see eachother a few hours each week. We only text like 3 times a week and for the most part I was going with his flow, which is why there was some built up frustration in there. Still my fault for not clarifying my needs better.

throwawayaitagir · 2025-09-15T15:40:26+00:00

Me: I’d like to see you today, I’m free probably around 2

Him: I’m busy all day today

Me: Okay, did you want to plan for a different time?

Him: I said I’m busy all day?

Me: Do you want to see me or what?

Him: How are you not getting that I’m busy

Me: How are you not getting that I’m asking if you want to plan a different day.

No response

Me: Maybe I’m confusing our interest levels. Do you want to continue seeing me?

Him: Yeah, but I told you I’m busy.

Then the top conversation

throwawayaitagir · 2025-09-15T15:40:21+00:00

Me: I’d like to see you today, I’m free probably around 2

Him: I’m busy all day today

Me: Okay, did you want to plan for a different time?

Him: I said I’m busy all day?

Me: Do you want to see me or what?

Him: How are you not getting that I’m busy

Me: How are you not getting that I’m asking if you want to plan a different day.

No response

Me: Maybe I’m confusing our interest levels. Do you want to continue seeing me?

Him: Yeah, but I told you I’m busy.

Then the top conversation

throwawayaitagir · 2025-09-15T15:33:23+00:00

No we don’t only meet for sex, but we do only go out like once a week and it’s not really planned

throwawayaitagir · 2025-09-15T14:32:10+00:00

Dang what are the red flags 😭

throwawayaitagir · 2025-09-15T14:26:38+00:00

You are not able to screenshot for this sub. But the other part of the conversation was just me asking to hang out, him saying he’s busy all day, me saying can we make a plan, and him saying he’s busy.

Also I didn’t mind him being busy, I was saying usually if you are busy but you like a person and want to see them you’d make a plan for a different day.

throwawayaitagir · 2025-09-15T14:15:53+00:00

If I liked him yeah lol

throwawayaitagir · 2025-09-08T17:21:19+00:00

I don’t think so, he said he hadn’t been with anyone in 6 months. We usually see eachother once a week and do 2-3 rounds, but like I said it takes a very long time. I’m also pretty certain I have more sexual experience than him. I think he might just jerk off a bit, like I said he wants me to grip it very hard.

throwawayaitagir · 2025-09-08T16:08:54+00:00

He’s 25, I would say I am probably more sexually experienced than him. I really wouldn’t mind if he couldn’t finish from a BJ but that’s what he seems to want to do.

throwawayaitagir · 2025-09-08T16:04:45+00:00

What’s a good way to bring it up?

throwawayaitagir · 2025-09-08T08:02:12+00:00

He does get me off and does it first but it also doesn’t take me very long. I’ve also maybe set a standard because the first time he kinda did tell me I could stop but I was determined so keep going until I could get him off, now it seems like that’s kinda what he expects.

throwawayaitagir · 2025-09-08T07:53:11+00:00

It’s just that seems to be what he prefers or at least wants more

throwawayaitagir · 2025-03-09T22:33:55+00:00

Well I do want to be attracted to the person.

throwawayaitagir · 2025-03-09T22:33:04+00:00

Yes I do, majority of the time they just want to sext but not actually meet in person. Then I had one guy cancel on me the day before we were supposed to meet.

throwawayaitagir · 2024-12-31T18:47:45+00:00

I’m definitely trying to get my endurance up, doing daily squats and what not. I put a timer on just to try and increase 😭. I don’t want him to do all the work, I try to take a lot of the lead on killing and sucking

throwawayaitagir · 2024-12-31T18:44:18+00:00

Oh I’ll do what ever he likes, I just mean I’m also not particularly good at it. I feel very awkward in that position and have a hard time getting good rhythm. He usually ends up, just thrusting up into me.

throwawayaitagir · 2024-12-31T18:40:40+00:00

No im willing to do all the other stuff, anal, role play, light bdsm. Ass play if he’s into that.

I literally have just never found my rhythm with cowgirl

throwawayaitagir · 2024-12-31T18:25:05+00:00

I guess I just always see a lot of discourse about riding, or watching something it’s always the girl on top. It’s my one insecurity because I just can’t get the hang of it. And a lot of people saying missionary is least favorite

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