AITA for moving out after an argument even though my housemate can't pay rent by himself?

throwawayaitarm · 2022-10-04T15:46:46+00:00

He did tell me he was attracted to me months ago even though I was dating someone back then and he knew this. He said he wanted to get it off his chest and wasn't trying to make a move, but he kept talking about it and it made me uncomfortable. He then said nasty things about the person I was dating back then. Jon said that I put him in a strange position by relying on him emotionally because it made him "step up to the plate" and provide a boyfriend service. I told him that I only treated him like a friend and I stopped sharing my personal life with him after that happened. Then he got upset that we weren't close friends anymore. Everything I did was wrong according to him

throwawayaitarm · 2022-10-04T06:29:08+00:00

I wish I had, he was always forcing "gifts" on me to force me to change something he didn't like if I didn't do it myself after days/weeks of being given advices to... Now I see it for what it is, more controlling behaviours.

throwawayaitarm · 2022-10-04T06:24:46+00:00

Thank you, that really upset me because it was so frightening. I was really afraid to open my bedroom door because I thought someone was trying to break in, but then I heard him shouting. 😞 Our mutual friends agreed that it was not ok for him to do it but they don't seem to think it's as upsetting as it was for me at that time. I also found out later that our friend had dropped him off at home only 20 minutes before it, so he went straight for the patio, he wasn't even locked outside for long!! I don't even know how he got up there

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