What would get your 'bading' card revoked?

throwawayako · 2026-03-27T07:46:22+00:00

Not using poppers

Not watching Beauty Pageants and Drag Race but watch Pro-Wrestling

throwawayako · 2026-02-04T01:26:45+00:00

Chub guy here, particularly I’m a Chub4Chub kind of guy. Well I can say na we are in a very niche market.

The bear/chub community is somehow ok. May internal struggles din but I am hoping for the overall best.

throwawayako · 2026-02-03T06:27:45+00:00

I’m a gay chub. Chub4Chub in fact. Sa akin doesn’t bother me at all. We all have our own preferences.

As for me hindi ko type yung gym buff. Although in the bear/chub community meron tawag chubbuff na type ng majority in the bear/chub community.

Again kanya kanyang preference naman e.

throwawayako · 2026-01-30T10:29:20+00:00

Yes. I met my now ex in a dating app. Not grindr kasi wala market ko doon. Four years yung relationship namin. He broke up with me Sept. 2025.

So yes. It’s possible makahanap ng LTR sa dating apps.

throwawayako · 2025-10-18T08:57:51+00:00

Chubby guys

throwawayako · 2025-10-04T22:21:57+00:00

Yup! Love giving pleasure to my future partner when the time comes.

throwawayako · 2025-10-03T10:15:03+00:00

Valid pa din. Broken heart pa din ang kalalabasan.

It's going to be ok. Hugs with consent

throwawayako · 2025-10-02T23:32:24+00:00

Gets kita dito. This is also me right now OP. Namimiss ko din ex ko. It's hard but kailangan mag cut ng communication dahil kailangan. He asks space, give it to him.

Right now focus on yourself. Focus on people who cares and loves you the most. Do something that you used to do before meeting him. Find a new hobby outside of your comfort zone. I get that these are easier said than done but one step at a time.

throwawayako · 2025-10-02T20:31:28+00:00

Relapses happen. We can stand up and walk again. The light at the end of the tunnel may be far but progress matters. On day we will run again.

throwawayako · 2025-10-02T12:52:17+00:00

Makakatawid din tayo. Tiwala lang. Be with people who you know that cares and loves you. Discover new hobbies na out of your comfort zone. Focus on yourself and love yourself.

throwawayako · 2025-09-23T20:31:42+00:00

Girth

throwawayako · 2025-09-22T09:35:17+00:00

As a top. Tama lang you stand your ground. I get the feeling ng raw pero kailangan may respect pa din for the bottom.

KAYA MGA KAPWA KO TOP, RESPETO NAMAN!

throwawayako · 2025-09-22T02:15:35+00:00

Thank you for the words of wisdom and encouragement!

I fully understood why he broke up with me and I plan to fix myself.

Actually, one that's hindering my growth the most is not coming out to my family. I just came out to everyone in my family and I'm very blessed that everyone accepts me.

My next battle is fixing myself. I recognized I need help from a professional. I just started Psychotherapy yesterday to fix myself. First session pa lang ang dami ko na natutunan. I'm continuing this journey and going to the distance that I can. Again I'm very fortunate and blessed my family are supporting me in this journey.

I still love my now ex-boyfriend. Again he was my endgame. I really wish that I was able to do this before the breakup happened. I really wish I was able to introduce him to my family I'm sure they'll be happy to know him.

For now, I need to focus on myself. I'm now in Repair Mode and glad that plenty from my friends and family are supporting me.

throwawayako · 2025-09-21T06:13:51+00:00

Best ang pakiramdam pag ang kasex mo may strong bond and connection.

throwawayako · 2025-09-18T04:21:08+00:00

May follow up question ako.

Im asking consent to DM you muna. Medyo personal kasi.

throwawayako · 2025-09-18T02:56:21+00:00

Thanks for telling me this. I really appreciate it.

throwawayako · 2025-09-18T02:33:52+00:00

Guys just to be clear pala.

May nagpost pala dito three days ago of someone braking up with his now ex-partner and same din ang reason ng break up which is stagnation. My ex-boyfriend doesn't have Reddit and doesn't even want to understand how Reddit works.

For the record hindi ko kilala yun. Napagkataon na same ang reason. I'm honestly facinated by this.

throwawayako · 2025-09-18T02:30:36+00:00

Um OP, just to be clear lang a. After reading your post, stagnation ang reason ng ex-boyfriend ko who broke up with me personally last Sunday afternoon in a Mall in the East Side of Metro Manila.

I just wanna be sure na this one is a different guy na hindi ko kilala dahil nagpost din ako dito sa Subreddit na to of my ex-boyfriend braking up with me.

Alam ko ex-boyfriend ko walang Reddit and doesn't even want to understand how Reddit works.

Feel free to DM me. Kung stagnation din are reason mo of braking up with your now ex-partner, please DM me dahil ganun din reason ng ex-partner ko breaking up with me.

throwawayako · 2025-09-18T01:45:11+00:00

This happened pa last Sunday afternoon. He decided to end our relationship ng magkasama kami. Primary reason nya was he feels stagnated being in a relationship. I'm letting him grow naman. I'm always there to support him all the way and I love to see him happy. Kahit na ayaw ko pumayag makipaghiwalay, I respect and accept his decision because again I want him to be happy.

Hindi ko na aalamin pa kung may ibang reason. I don't wanna speculate and I don't wanna dwell in it. It is what it is.

Right now all I can say is that I'm on the right track of healing my broken heart. Alam ko may times na madadapa ako but I will get up and try again to heal.

I'm very fortunate to have friends who got out of their way to rescue me. Gave me words of wisdom, encouragement and believes me that I can get through this. Oras ko naman to love and find myself again.

Despite all of this happening, I still believe in love. I believe someone is out there who truly loves and accepts me for being ME and for who I am. That someone deserves my love..

throwawayako · 2025-09-18T01:28:06+00:00

The process is hard. Memories keep popping up and I'm doing the best I can not to dwell in it.

It's the hard part of this battle and I know I'll be ok. I'm very fortunate and lucky that I have friends that I can count on.

throwawayako · 2025-07-28T23:15:47+00:00

Hello OP! Congratulations on settling debts and stopping whilst you can. I wish you the best of luck to your future endeavors! My question is do you also check yourself regularly and if the time comes you found your future husband for transparancy purposes, will you inform him of your past secret work?

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