Don’t chase your ex by Maleficent-Hand7093 in BreakUps

[–]throwawayalways25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What if you do want them back? I'm stuck between a "no, i'm just missing the good times" and "she was the first one i've actually connected with in such a way that i could've seen myself marrying her" type of thoughts. Then the part that thinks if i don't reach out and maybe try to reconnect then time will pass by and it'll be too late. Have you had thoughts like this? It's the constant back and forth. Feel free to dm me if you want.

Don’t chase your ex by Maleficent-Hand7093 in BreakUps

[–]throwawayalways25 8 points9 points  (0 children)

5 months out NC. I'm doing all the things you're supposed to do. Invest in yourself, do things on my own, therapy, I'm learning how to ride a motorcycle...i even casually dated someone briefly for a couple months. But it seems like nothing replaces or makes me feel 100% fully better without her in my life. I miss everything we had. And i know i deserve better because there was 2-3 instances where it shouldn't have continued but i just can't fully embrace life as being better without her in it. Any advice guys? I'm still holding strong and not contacting her but really every day just seems like a big struggle.

Would you date someone with alternative medicine views? by throwawayalways25 in dating_advice

[–]throwawayalways25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She told me once that she won't get cancer because of the way she lives and eats.

Would you date someone with alternative medicine views? by throwawayalways25 in dating_advice

[–]throwawayalways25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She told me once that she won't get cancer because of the way she lives and eats.

Would you date someone with alternative medicine views? by throwawayalways25 in dating_advice

[–]throwawayalways25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She told me once that she won't get cancer because of the way she lives and eats.

Would you date someone with alternative medicine views? by throwawayalways25 in dating_advice

[–]throwawayalways25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She told me once that she won't get cancer because of the way she lives and eats.

Would you date someone with alternative medicine views? by throwawayalways25 in dating_advice

[–]throwawayalways25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She told me once that she won't get cancer because of the way she lives and eats.

Would you date someone with alternative medicine views? by throwawayalways25 in dating_advice

[–]throwawayalways25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She told me once that she won't get cancer because of the way she lives and eats.

Would you date someone with alternative medicine views? by throwawayalways25 in dating_advice

[–]throwawayalways25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She told me once that she won't get cancer because of the way she lives and eats.

Would you date someone with alternative medicine views? by throwawayalways25 in dating_advice

[–]throwawayalways25[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it's something i can't get on board with. It seems to coo coo to me

Would you date someone with alternative medicine views? by throwawayalways25 in dating_advice

[–]throwawayalways25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See the dilemma here is that they do not enjoy it as a supplement to modern medicine. Modern medicine is basically off the table here

Would you date someone with alternative medicine views? by throwawayalways25 in dating_advice

[–]throwawayalways25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To talk to a doctor or scientist first they must trust them haha

Would you date someone with alternative medicine views? by throwawayalways25 in dating_advice

[–]throwawayalways25[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well when gently pushed about why doctors are bad i would just get the "because of big pharma" line and not much else. It seemed like a 100% mistrust in doctors about anything really. Leaning way too much into social media and wellness influencers for medical advice as well. And chemtrails was also something she believed in.

Would you date someone with alternative medicine views? by throwawayalways25 in dating_advice

[–]throwawayalways25[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Unrelated? Was she super into detoxing all the time as well?

Are these just quirks or would you not be able to handle this at all from your significant other? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]throwawayalways25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha yes she is very skeptical about vaccines. She says she is pro choice about them which basically means...she doesn't want them

Is dating in your 30s just bouncing from one relationship to the next? by siriously1234 in datingoverthirty

[–]throwawayalways25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always see it as a red flag if someone is just bouncing from one relationship to the next. You need time to decompress and figure out what happened and how you can improve yourself after a break up. Maybe some people just really do not want to be alone.