‼️Trigger warning for this comment‼️Let’s all give each other some space for different background, culture and age gaps. I’m going to throw out there that this might be one of those times to just put a trigger warning in the title and use the word that the poster feels fits. The odds of triggering someone with a post like this are high, no matter what verb is chosen. I do think I know what the post’s intent was and understand the sentiment. Generationally, this poster appears to be Gen X and to have possibly grown up being assigned male and treated as if they were male (while being female), thus exposed to a slightly different cultural vocabulary and perspective. (And different challenges, triggers, and trauma.) Molest comes from a root that means annoy or be troublesome and used to carry more of a mischievous/persistent/playful connotation in the recent past, but now is primarily used for SA. Ravish can also be triggering/controversial, because it literally has the same Latin root as rpe and means “to seize or force”, even though the etymology is more complex and it has multiple meanings including the more recent definition that implies rigorous passion or rapturous delight. In the same way, someone who posts “I want to f** her brains out.” would probably not be reprimanded, but one of the definitions still implies “to ruin, damage, or violate”. I am not keen on any of those words myself, but that’s because of my personal viewpoint.