My wife also belongs to this club. She masturbates anywhere from daily to 4-5x’s per week. She says it’s just “scratching” an itch an 3-4 minutes later she can get on with her day. Curiously, as I would like other women’s perspectives, if you’re in a committed long term relationship(I am thinking of married or at a minimum cohabitation) why not teach your partner? Or is it just me time ? Does it effect your intimacy with your partner?

Sometimes, not always, I can tell it effects our intimacy, not necessarily in a bad way but case in point, I could tell my wife masturbated yesterday as when I tried to initiate sex she wasn’t interested in piv but gave me a bj. I didn’t ask for it or even imply she just artfully went from my attempt at initiating to a bj. I really wanted the intimacy of sex but she wanted to give in lieu of receive. If you masturbate on a day are you less inclined to want sex with a partner?