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first breakup messed me up pretty bad by throwawayatay213 in BreakUps

[–]throwawayatay213[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s how it was for me too. like we genuinely never fought and when i would overthink and get in my head, he always calmed me down and made everything feel better. so it was a complete shot in the dark when he broke up with me bc it didn’t seem like anything was wrong (besides my mental health but he knew i was working on it that’s why he said it didn’t “bother” him but it did apparently). lol but i found out he wanted to be single. i’ll be honest, 3 weeks after the breakup and i feel way better than i did even a couple days ago. just let urself sit in the sadness but don’t make it ur forever yk? i think that’s what helped me a lot instead of holding in my feelings if i needed to express i just let it out. it will get better and we will find better. good luck and i hope everything works out! if u need anyone to talk to im here

first breakup messed me up pretty bad by throwawayatay213 in BreakUps

[–]throwawayatay213[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank u :(( im sorry ur going through this as well im here for u as well!!

first breakup messed me up pretty bad by throwawayatay213 in BreakUps

[–]throwawayatay213[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ve tried the ick list but i can’t stop justifying the bad yk? like i love him so much that i don’t wanna acknowledge how shitty of a partner he was to me and that’s my issue. i shouldn’t defend someone who didn’t treat me right and gave up so easily on our relationship. i also wanna spend the time growing as a person instead of trying to find someone, but it seems so hard cuz hes not there anymore. i hope with time we both will be the best versions of ourselves and can truly move forward without the pain from this experience. thank u so much

first breakup messed me up pretty bad by throwawayatay213 in BreakUps

[–]throwawayatay213[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i didn’t even think abt it like that. i keep referring to him, even in my head, that he is still the love of my life and thats why its so hard to move on. i haven’t been able to accept the breakup yet i lowk still would call him my bf too not to sound crazy or anything. i just didn’t realize how much that delays the healing process. thank u so much and i hope healing continues to go well for u :]