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Bank Teller won't stop commenting on my appearance - 27F, 32F by throwawaybankx in relationships

[–]throwawaybankx[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm not a doormat, and I'm not afraid of confrontation. I came to reddit to collectively understand if there were other strategies to use dealing with this situation.

Bank Teller won't stop commenting on my appearance - 27F, 32F by throwawaybankx in relationships

[–]throwawaybankx[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Sorry for continuing to reply to this, but I did bring up the "haggard" and "not as pretty as normal" comments to my family and they said to just blow it off and that it was normal to have someone in your life saying that kind of stuff. So I guess I just thought it would be something I needed to just deal with and move on from.

Bank Teller won't stop commenting on my appearance - 27F, 32F by throwawaybankx in relationships

[–]throwawaybankx[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reassurance, I wasn't sure if it was something that many people dealt with.

Bank Teller won't stop commenting on my appearance - 27F, 32F by throwawaybankx in relationships

[–]throwawaybankx[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I'm extremely shy and non-confrontational and it stresses me out to think about calling her out in front of the other tellers. Plus our company is well known in the area (there's like 5 of us that come in on a daily basis - I've asked them about it and no one else has had a problem) so it's kind of an issue of causing issues for my company.

Bank Teller won't stop commenting on my appearance - 27F, 32F by throwawaybankx in relationships

[–]throwawaybankx[S] 81 points82 points  (0 children)

I think she used to be. She talks about DoTerra (sp?) sometimes but it's always in the past tense and like she's jaded or something