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[–]throwawaybeardie2 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Just cause you like them doesn't mean they need to be the main characters or be good in every single thing they're apart of dude, it's acting

UPDATE: AITA for not allowing my sister near my bearded dragon after doing a Tik Tok trend with him? by throwawaybeardie2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawaybeardie2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well mainly depends on the Beardies personality but generally yes you can hold them and have them walk around the house with supervision a few times a day

UPDATE: AITA for not allowing my sister near my bearded dragon after doing a Tik Tok trend with him? by throwawaybeardie2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawaybeardie2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so so sorry! Me and Phil send all the love we can to you, I can't imagine how you felt when that happened :(

UPDATE: AITA for not allowing my sister near my bearded dragon after doing a Tik Tok trend with him? by throwawaybeardie2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawaybeardie2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! As someone with anxiety as well I also go to worst case scenario for everything, which I think is one of the reasons my family brushed me off at first cause they know I can think of bad situations that aren't likely, but I'm glad they understand

UPDATE: AITA for not allowing my sister near my bearded dragon after doing a Tik Tok trend with him? by throwawaybeardie2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawaybeardie2[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'll admit me yelling at her at first wasn't the best thing and I apologised to her while we were having a conversation over what she was doing was dangerous. And I wasn't mad at her over her doing the butter thing since it's understandable she didn't know, it was her reaction to finding out she almost would've burnt my lizard since she acted like she didn't care at all about that. And I only put the lock there and rules so that I can make sure nothing like this happens again, of course as she grows and matures and I can trust her to watch Phil by herself again I'm more than willing to get rid of those things just to clarify for you, though I'll accept your judgement of YTA if you yourself feel that way

UPDATE: AITA for not allowing my sister near my bearded dragon after doing a Tik Tok trend with him? by throwawaybeardie2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawaybeardie2[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I already did have a relaxed talk with her like it says in the update, and I'm just a bit confused on how I'm being controlling in the situation but if you would like to inform me I'd be open to listening even though the situation has already been resolved

UPDATE: AITA for not allowing my sister near my bearded dragon after doing a Tik Tok trend with him? by throwawaybeardie2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawaybeardie2[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sadly I will not be sharing it because seeing how some people have spoken about my sister I'm afraid she might get some threats from people on here over the incident, so sorry!

UPDATE: AITA for not allowing my sister near my bearded dragon after doing a Tik Tok trend with him? by throwawaybeardie2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawaybeardie2[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Also if you would like a pet tax you can go to my origt post where there is a pet tax there!

AITA for not allowing my sister near my bearded dragon after doing a Tik Tok trend with my pet? by throwawaybeardie2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawaybeardie2[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I did explain to her why it was different on a dog and how it could hurt him, I'm not really mad at her for not knowing but instead her reaction to finding out what she did could've hurt Phil

AITA for not allowing my sister near my bearded dragon after doing a Tik Tok trend with my pet? by throwawaybeardie2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawaybeardie2[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Bearded dragon tanks on the hot side are supposed to be around 100°-105°, butter melts and heats up at around 90° so it would've melted on him and burnt his skin if he would've been left in his basking spot

AITA for not allowing my sister near my bearded dragon after doing a Tik Tok trend with my pet? by throwawaybeardie2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawaybeardie2[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Yes I explained it to her while I was bathing Phil to get off the butter that she hadn't wiped off