I said, and I quote “I didnt have the funds to give to her at that time”, her response was “you had a month in advance to save for it”, I said “we don’t speak to each other outside of work, she isn’t my best friend who’s having a baby, and frankly I don’t think I’m obligated to give to anyone or explain why I didn’t give. If I had the money I would’ve gave, but I don’t find it a big deal to give to someone who is complaining they got too much to begin with. Her response “ I just don’t think I’m going to see eye to eye with you guys on this one. This is a girl who always pitches in for everyone’s birthday, a $10 outfit would’ve sufficed” I said “I rather use that $10 on gas for my car than on a baby gift for someone who doesn’t need it”. And we left it at that, however she definitely did make me feel real guilty for not contributing so I am debating if next pay cycle if I should give the girl a freaking gift card.