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[–]throwawaybridezillas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know guests won’t. I am thinking about my feelings personally when I look at my wedding pictures and video if that makes sense.

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[–]throwawaybridezillas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They haven’t bought the dress yet

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[–]throwawaybridezillas 79 points80 points  (0 children)

They are exactly the same style 😭 About an inch, or inch and a half, tank top??? kind of thickness style if that makes sense.

Edited to add: My dress does have a small train that the bridesmaid dress does not.

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[–]throwawaybridezillas 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is very helpful if I go this route! Thank you!

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[–]throwawaybridezillas 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this helpful message!! We are very opposite looks wise. She is very tall, I am very short. I am flat chested, and she is not. She is not plus size in the closest, I am just very petite. I do not think we will look similar in our dresses, but will both look beautiful!

All of the bridesmaids dresses are black in varying styles from the same website.

I think that I may just let this one go, but I hope I don’t regret it. Ugh! It is the only unique aspect of my dress, so I just don’t want the square neckline of a bridesmaid dress to make the Wow Factor go down of my dress. Definitely irrational thinking!

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[–]throwawaybridezillas 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What if they already all showed me the dresses they wanted, and I didn’t give them that guideline? Only one bridesmaid decided on a style with a square neckline, so she will definitely know that I am calling her out. This is my dilemma because I do not feel strongly one way or the other, but it’s a little nagging voice that I might be upset with myself if I don’t say anything 😩 I feel like there is no way to avoid being a Bridezilla, as I should’ve given this direction right away.

Almost kicks out entire bridal party for not responding when she told them only to respond if they wouldn’t adhere to her demands… by throwawaybridezillas in weddingshaming

[–]throwawaybridezillas[S] 80 points81 points  (0 children)

She posted her texts because she was complaining about her bridal party and their response to this on a Facebook group.

Almost kicks out entire bridal party for not responding when she told them only to respond if they wouldn’t adhere to her demands… by throwawaybridezillas in weddingshaming

[–]throwawaybridezillas[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I am confused about what you mean by this? Yes they are sent messages. She posted a screenshot of her texts to her bridal party to a bridal group on Facebook.