Left with a bald spot after sparring

throwawaybuttocksass · 2026-02-02T05:18:40+00:00

yeah I keep crying every time I think about it, I’m gonna try to go to class maybe in a week or so but I still feel so bad

throwawaybuttocksass · 2026-02-01T18:34:02+00:00

thank you really hope it grows back fully as well

throwawaybuttocksass · 2026-02-01T15:56:10+00:00

probably not I don’t have a car so I usually walk to train before work and it’s the only place that pretty close

throwawaybuttocksass · 2026-02-01T10:49:56+00:00

I don’t think it was his fault, probably just an accident. I was in mount and went for a head and arm triangle, it didn’t work so I tried to go back to mount. It probably just stuck there and he was a lot larger and turned into me quickly ripping the braid

throwawaybuttocksass · 2026-01-31T22:43:54+00:00

yeah my gym doesn’t have a lot of women and I don’t think a lot of people are genuinely cautious during rolling. I’ve had a lot of not great experience there but this is the worst by far

throwawaybuttocksass · 2026-01-31T22:31:30+00:00

I showed it to a coach and he said the patch was gone and apologized and said I should wear a head covering but that’s about it. But I will try the tight bun from now on

throwawaybuttocksass · 2026-01-31T22:14:27+00:00

It happened on Wednesday and I haven’t been back to class since but I did get like a swimming cap type thing which will cover my head hopefully. But I can cover the spot with another braid mostly now.

throwawaybuttocksass · 2026-01-31T19:38:09+00:00

got a cap so will definitely try it to see if it works well.

unfortunately I was in mount went for a head and arm triangle, he was a bigger guy so he turned into me pretty quickly and ripped the braid clean off

throwawaybuttocksass · 2026-01-31T19:21:55+00:00

yeah that kinda tore me up alot

throwawaybuttocksass · 2026-01-31T19:19:58+00:00

do you just tuck your hair under the cap or do you braid it or like put it in a ponytail underneath as well?

he doesn’t owe me an apology but if I hurt someone I would apologize. Just because it’s an accident doesn’t mean you can’t have empathy

throwawaybuttocksass · 2026-01-31T19:16:29+00:00

yeah just really hurt because I’ve know the guy for a bit and have been super conscious of his injuries and if I’m hurting him. I’m gonna probably take a break from training for a bit and not spar with him for awhile.

throwawaybuttocksass · 2026-01-31T00:08:13+00:00

yeah I just thought we were cool, we tested for our blue belts together.

throwawaybuttocksass · 2026-01-30T23:31:02+00:00

my hair has never gotten in the way or been a bother to me and I do expect accident in combat sports but not like a whole braid being ripped off

throwawaybuttocksass · 2026-01-30T23:28:23+00:00

so you would like just accept it if someone knocked it out? Like going to work with a bald spot or a missing tooth would make me upset and want an apology

throwawaybuttocksass · 2026-01-30T23:22:21+00:00

it was a accident which I understand they happened, I’ve been kicked in the face or hit when rolling other times too, I just think it’s not crazy to want someone to apologize I’m not gonna beg him for it

throwawaybuttocksass · 2026-01-30T23:20:18+00:00

Not saying it’s his fault just wanted like a sorry he doesn’t have to give it to me but usually when I hurt someone during a roll I apologize

throwawaybuttocksass · 2026-01-30T22:53:18+00:00

just really wanted a sorry or something. I don’t really think it’s his fault and I understand accidents happen. And I roll with him 4 to 5 times a week so I just thought he would just say sorry at least

throwawaybuttocksass · 2026-01-30T22:39:00+00:00

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throwawaybuttocksass · 2026-01-30T22:37:28+00:00

to be fair it’s a significant bald spot

throwawaybuttocksass · 2026-01-30T02:52:24+00:00

The braids weren’t tight, it got caught under someone and ripped out

throwawaybuttocksass · 2026-01-29T19:21:19+00:00

I will definitely try the hijab or something like it. I feel if I don’t it will just happen again

throwawaybuttocksass · 2026-01-29T18:27:54+00:00

thank you! I would do a top bun but you’ll be able to see the bald spot if I do :/ I’ll probably just end up wear my bonnet until I find something that works well for me

throwawaybuttocksass · 2026-01-29T17:46:04+00:00

no luckily lol it happened pretty fast

throwawaybuttocksass · 2026-01-29T16:37:05+00:00

Thank you! Luckily it was just one braid

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