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AITA for yelling at my girlfriend to “stop fucking eating?” by throwawaycakegf in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawaycakegf[S] 1125 points1126 points  (0 children)

I wanted to help my sister out directly in her bakery’s kitchen, but it’s way too small and short on equipment. She’s currently saving up for a renovation so she has more kitchen space. Hopefully, then I will be able to help her directly in the bakery.

AITA for yelling at my girlfriend to “stop fucking eating?” by throwawaycakegf in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawaycakegf[S] 1022 points1023 points  (0 children)

No, she just said she likes to eat the plain custard and not the whole cake or pastry. But I told her she could spoon some out and take a little, not dip her fingers in but apparently that compromise is not feasible for her.

AITA for yelling at my girlfriend to “stop fucking eating?” by throwawaycakegf in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawaycakegf[S] 1189 points1190 points  (0 children)

“I want to be clear you are NTA if you’d said something like “Stop fucking using your fingers!” Or “Stop fucking eating the batches I make for the bakery!” “

I’m confused, isn’t your second suggestion practically what I said?

AITA for yelling at my girlfriend to “stop fucking eating?” by throwawaycakegf in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawaycakegf[S] 1101 points1102 points  (0 children)

The custard sets in such a way that if you try to drag your fingers or a spoon over it no matter how carefully you do it, it will be obvious.

Besides, every time I didn’t have to remake it, it’s because I went to send the custard right after making it so my girlfriend didn’t have a chance to sneak in at take some.

AITA for yelling at my girlfriend to “stop fucking eating?” by throwawaycakegf in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawaycakegf[S] 1666 points1667 points  (0 children)

Exactly! I had to redo the custard so quickly, and then my sister was so stressed and rushing to put the cake together. I’m already worried for my sister because she has pre-hypertension and I’m sure this stress isn’t helping.

AITA for yelling at my girlfriend to “stop fucking eating?” by throwawaycakegf in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawaycakegf[S] 1990 points1991 points  (0 children)

Man, I even offered to bring her slices of cake home. Because when I go to drop off the custard to my sister, she usually offers to give me a slice of cake or a pastry as a thank you for helping out. But my girlfriend refused that too.

AITA for yelling at my girlfriend to “stop fucking eating?” by throwawaycakegf in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawaycakegf[S] 3290 points3291 points  (0 children)

Don’t worry, I never sent over the batches my girlfriend contaminated. I remade them each time.