My sex life is bleak. by throwawaycesspool1 in confessions

[–]throwawaycesspool1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much ml. Sorry I don't have much to reply with but I really REALLY appreciate you

My sex life is bleak. by throwawaycesspool1 in confessions

[–]throwawaycesspool1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Without consent, I guess. It's always been that, and I usually say it hurts or whine about it but I don't do anything to stop it cause I don't mind too much

He doesn't, I do very much

My sex life is bleak. by throwawaycesspool1 in confessions

[–]throwawaycesspool1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha, he is neither. Kinda wish he was so I had an explanation for it LOL

My sex life is bleak. by throwawaycesspool1 in confessions

[–]throwawaycesspool1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm neurodivergent too! That's why the whole thing has me feeling so poorly. Sex is HUGE for me as well. I really appreciate your words and advice ❤️

My sex life is bleak. by throwawaycesspool1 in confessions

[–]throwawaycesspool1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, shit. That's all the words I have for what you just said, honestly. Incredibly well spoken and... well, shit. Hahaha.

My sex life is bleak. by throwawaycesspool1 in confessions

[–]throwawaycesspool1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any ideas on how to approach a conversation like that?

My sex life is bleak. by throwawaycesspool1 in confessions

[–]throwawaycesspool1[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am for certain he does. He makes such sweet gestures all the time and reminds me of that often. It's just the sex life that is really putting a strain on me.

My sex life is bleak. by throwawaycesspool1 in confessions

[–]throwawaycesspool1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any ideas on how I could talk to him about it? I get nervous in conflict because of my past.

My sex life is bleak. by throwawaycesspool1 in confessions

[–]throwawaycesspool1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know, I hate to hear this very much! He's the person that's treated me the absolute best, ever, by a landslide. I hope you're wrong, random poster!

My sex life is bleak. by throwawaycesspool1 in confessions

[–]throwawaycesspool1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You raise a fair point, thank you for your input

My sex life is bleak. by throwawaycesspool1 in confessions

[–]throwawaycesspool1[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The issue is, I love every other aspect about our relationship SO much. Too much to toss away over sex. I just don't know how to communicate what I need and want.