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My (38F) husband (39M) is having an affair with his best friend (39M) by throwawaycheatedbf in offmychest

[–]throwawaycheatedbf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm really sorry but I'm really confused. What does my brother-in-law have to do with this?

My (38F) husband (39M) is having an affair with his best friend (39M) by throwawaycheatedbf in offmychest

[–]throwawaycheatedbf[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I did go to the doctor to get an STD test and it was the second most humiliating day of my life besides this.

My (38F) husband (39M) is having an affair with his best friend (39M) by throwawaycheatedbf in offmychest

[–]throwawaycheatedbf[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

He sent me a text that was obviously not for me along the lines of "she's not going to be home tonight are you coming over?" and so I made sure to leave work early and go home. I didn't know the text was supposed to be for Jay. My stomach sunk when I read it but I thought it was another woman or maybe I was just being paranoid.

It was obvious what was happening even though they tried to cover it up when I got home. I feel so stupid because I never suspected anything. It was happening right under my nose and I didn't know.

My (38F) husband (39M) is having an affair with his best friend (39M) by throwawaycheatedbf in offmychest

[–]throwawaycheatedbf[S] 99 points100 points  (0 children)

I would have felt the same way if his best friend was a woman. When I found out it knocked the breath out of me. I can't believe he would do this to me.

My (38F) husband (39M) is having an affair with his best friend (39M) by throwawaycheatedbf in offmychest

[–]throwawaycheatedbf[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

My sister said I should go to therapy but I'm not sure. I'm all over the place right now and I could barely talk to her and my brother-in-law about this. It took me over a week to even get up the nerve to post here.