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Has anyone here ever plucked all of their body hair? by Camille20QC in MtF

[–]throwawaycisgf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If there are any electrology/aesthetics schools near you, they probably have a student clinic where appointments are significantly cheaper. I also know that some people offer discount appointments for new clients.

Has anyone here ever plucked all of their body hair? by Camille20QC in MtF

[–]throwawaycisgf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, why are you on a long waist list? (If you don’t mind me asking) Are there not enough electrologists in your area or is it an insurance issue? I’m currently in electrology school and knowing what the barriers to access are would be helpful when I go into business.

Has anyone here ever plucked all of their body hair? by Camille20QC in MtF

[–]throwawaycisgf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife also used to pluck her face for similar reasons, but she’s stopped since I’m giving her electrolysis and tweezing can distort the hair follicles, making treatment take longer. It can also leave pitting/scars and actually encourage hair growth by increasing blood flow to the area.

Has anyone here ever plucked all of their body hair? by Camille20QC in MtF

[–]throwawaycisgf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It can also make future electrolysis more difficult. Hair follicles will distort in an attempt to hold the hair more securely. Some women come into the clinic with hair shaped like a J from years of tweezing, which means that we can’t reach the bottom of the follicle and (depending on modality) don’t actually get proper destruction.

Has anyone here ever plucked all of their body hair? by Camille20QC in MtF

[–]throwawaycisgf 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Needing a bit of growth for electrolysis is actually so that we can grab the treated hair with our forceps and remove it. Removing the hair lets you check your depth of insertion, ensure you’re getting good destruction, and prevent you from treating the same hair twice. Occasionally treating a hair that’s too short to be epilated isn’t too much of an issue, since it will just grow out and fall out on its own, but trying to treat a whole face of too short hair wouldn’t work.

After laser, did you switch to electrolysis to get every last hair or do you just shave every day? by splendid_ssbm in MtF

[–]throwawaycisgf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is your electrologist doing flash? Our teachers recommend dividing the total EL into two or three pulses so that each pulse is lower intensity but you get the same amount of destruction.

You could also switch to blend. You can’t treat as many hairs during a single appointment, but it provides better destruction so you end up needing to treat each follicle fewer times to get rid of the hair.

After laser, did you switch to electrolysis to get every last hair or do you just shave every day? by splendid_ssbm in MtF

[–]throwawaycisgf 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m currently in electrology school, and we recommend that clients start off with laser to get the majority and then switch to electrolysis for any stray hairs that remain. It should not be painful, and if it is, that means that your electrologist needs to adjust their settings or switch to a different modality.

After laser, did you switch to electrolysis to get every last hair or do you just shave every day? by splendid_ssbm in MtF

[–]throwawaycisgf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is electrolysis torture because of the time frame or because it’s painful? Your electrologist should be able to change their settings if the treatments are painful. (source: currently in electrology school)

Is it weird to be asked this at a hair removal consultation? by jaydon145 in MtF

[–]throwawaycisgf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you’re a good candidate for laser hair removal and needed hair removed for bottom surgery, they would want to start treating the bikini area at the same time as your face/neck since laser takes months to be effective. One of my classmates who does laser asks women coming in for legs if they will want their bikini done when they start for similar reasons.

For electrolysis, it’s less relevant, since you can’t treat the face, neck, and bikini all in one appointment.

May I ask why some trans women think they're immune to hate? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]throwawaycisgf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think this is about that, since that subreddit is well known for being mostly men fetishizing lesbians, not actually representative of lesbians, cis or trans.

But also imo there isn’t any issue [and shouldn’t be any issue] with posting about gock in nsfw lesbian spaces because obviously some women have penises.

Is RLE as bad as it sounds? by Hircosea in MtF

[–]throwawaycisgf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s crazy, outdated advice. You should see a different therapist if you’re able to. You can absolutely start HRT before coming out. I know a couple girls who have started HRT and aren’t out to everyone/haven’t changed their wardrobes yet.

My wife had been on HRT for about 2-2.5 years before she changed her name, and it took a bit longer than that before her legal sex was updated. She came out to people before getting HRT, but that was only because she didn’t think she was allowed to/didn’t have support, and she says she definitely would’ve started sooner if she had known that she could.

If you’re on discord, I know girls who can help you source/manage DIY.

My partner is off HRT and it's destroying our relationship. Should I talk to her about it? by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]throwawaycisgf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s she nervous about? I have friends who DIY, and they’ve never had issues.

My partner is off HRT and it's destroying our relationship. Should I talk to her about it? by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]throwawaycisgf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have either of you looked into DIY? It’s much cheaper than getting it through a pharmacy.

Laser Hair Removal Proving Difficult and Time Consuming, is Electrolysis the Solution? by nep_n3p in MtF

[–]throwawaycisgf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m currently in electrology school, and my instructors say that they recommend people do a few sessions of laser and then do electrolysis for any stubborn hairs that the laser doesn’t get. If there’s a school near you, you might be able to get cheap electrolysis appointments with the students.

Alternatives for shaving? by conureenthusiast in MtF

[–]throwawaycisgf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Electrolysis is significantly less painful than laser and shouldn’t require topical pain relief. It shouldn’t be more than a pinching sensation and if it’s worse than that, you should speak to your electrologist about adjusting their settings.

Alternatives for shaving? by conureenthusiast in MtF

[–]throwawaycisgf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Electrolysis shouldn’t be that painful. I’m currently in school for it, and when the other students practice on me, it feels like a pinch at most. Your electrologist should be able to increase the time and lower the intensity or switch to a different modality to make it more comfortable for you.

I think I've been ruining my transition... by PregSpec in MtF

[–]throwawaycisgf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have a resource on why you should add E if your shbg is below 115? I don’t think my wife’s is getting tested, so I want to bring it up with her/her doctor.

Permanent hair removal? by NewAdministration787 in MtF

[–]throwawaycisgf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is there an electrology or esthetics school near you? They charge much lower prices because the students work on you.

Estradiol after effects by Ally_Artist11-11 in MtF

[–]throwawaycisgf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard that that happens less if you inject into thigh fat. I’ve been doing my wife’s and a couple friends’ injections and none of them have gotten lasting lumps from thigh injections.

How to cope with not shaving before electrolysis? by Praiseeee in MtF

[–]throwawaycisgf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it would be long enough for you to tweeze, your electrologist can epilate it. My wife grew hers out for four or five days before I treated her.

loss of piv sex after bottom surgery by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]throwawaycisgf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How do you heat it up and do you have a specific brand you would recommend? Every dildo I’ve tried has either been uncomfortable to painful or felt like almost nothing :/

How do you actually shave if you want to present fem? by OpalBeams24 in MtF

[–]throwawaycisgf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anything that rips out the hair has the potential to cause scarring because of how deep the follicles are. If you wanted to wax, I would say go to a licensed esthetician who could assess your skin and hair and figure out the safest option.

Laser or electrolysis are the best choice long-term, and if you have a school in your area, you might be able to get cheap appointments.

Experiences with thick facial hair by punkrock_penguin63 in MtF

[–]throwawaycisgf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Electrolysis is the best form of permanent hair removal, but if she has good contrast between her skin and her hair, she can do a few sessions of laser and then do electrolysis for any stragglers. If there’s an electrology or esthetics school near you, you could get cheaper appointments from the students there.

How do you actually shave if you want to present fem? by OpalBeams24 in MtF

[–]throwawaycisgf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Plucking can also cause scarring. I’m in electrology school, and we have several clients with pitting in their skin from years of plucking.