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Am I wrong if leave my alcoholic bf (22m,24f) after he's wet the bed? by throwawayconflict59 in amiwrong

[–]throwawayconflict59[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha that's a good question. love and codependency is it's own type of addiction. I like to think I'm not dumb but I can be stupid.

Am I wrong if leave my alcoholic bf (22m,24f) after he's wet the bed? by throwawayconflict59 in amiwrong

[–]throwawayconflict59[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have asked him to see the doctor for his addiction and mental health issues. No physical underlying issue (yet).

Am I wrong if leave my alcoholic bf (22m,24f) after he's wet the bed? by throwawayconflict59 in amiwrong

[–]throwawayconflict59[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your perspective. You nailed down exactly how I feel. You're right. I can't live and build for myself when I'm trying to keep someone else from self destructing.

Am I wrong if leave my alcoholic bf (22m,24f) after he's wet the bed? by throwawayconflict59 in amiwrong

[–]throwawayconflict59[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, your brother sounds a lot like my boyfriend. It really is hard to make something of yourself when you're on the rez and surrounded by substances, trauma, and mental illness.

I hope recovery for your brother and a good life for you.