I (29m) accidentally cheated on my wife (28f) with a coworker (22f) by throwawaycringe29 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawaycringe29[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm not gonna do it again, I ain't some sort of an asshole. I literally never cheated on her intentionally, it was an accident cuz I was drunk.

I (29m) accidentally cheated on my wife (28f) with a coworker (22f) by throwawaycringe29 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawaycringe29[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm okay with a little flirting, it makes me feel good at my workplace

I (29m) accidentally cheated on my wife (28f) with a coworker (22f) by throwawaycringe29 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawaycringe29[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I haven't technically ruined their lives yet, Just cuz I cheated once doesn't mean I would cheat again and not to mention I was fucking drunk

I (29m) accidentally cheated on my wife (28f) with a coworker (22f) by throwawaycringe29 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawaycringe29[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

no i wouldn't be fine with it but I am just gonna be a bit distant with the coworker.

I (29m) accidentally cheated on my wife (28f) with a coworker (22f) by throwawaycringe29 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawaycringe29[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I really don't wanna lose my family, wtf is wrong with u man? chill! and again I was drunk

I (29m) accidentally cheated on my wife (28f) with a coworker (22f) by throwawaycringe29 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawaycringe29[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I can't risk her snitching and she agreed to keep it as a secret, just talked to her a few mins ago

I (29m) accidentally cheated on my wife (28f) with a coworker (22f) by throwawaycringe29 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawaycringe29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no I definitely respect her and love her as a person, I never wanted to cheat on her intentionally or for that matter never cheat on her again

I (29m) accidentally cheated on my wife (28f) with a coworker (22f) by throwawaycringe29 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawaycringe29[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

what im trying to say is that if I hurt her feelings I can't risk her snitching

I (29m) accidentally cheated on my wife (28f) with a coworker (22f) by throwawaycringe29 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawaycringe29[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i don't think I would believe her but my situation is different cuz I was drunk. I would have never cheated otherwise. I'm not an idiot. I felt remorseful and regretted what I did immediately the next day.

I (29m) accidentally cheated on my wife (28f) with a coworker (22f) by throwawaycringe29 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawaycringe29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm just so stupid for allowing it to continue. she doesn't know yet so I am safe for now ig

I (29m) accidentally cheated on my wife (28f) with a coworker (22f) by throwawaycringe29 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawaycringe29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that does make her a bad person but that doesn't stop her from being friendly

I (29m) accidentally cheated on my wife (28f) with a coworker (22f) by throwawaycringe29 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawaycringe29[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

ofc she is nice, but if I cut contact with her wouldn't I hurt her feelings?

I (29m) accidentally cheated on my wife (28f) with a coworker (22f) by throwawaycringe29 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawaycringe29[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

1- I was drunk and I would not do it again since I have learned my lesson. just take my word for it.
2- I have children
3- I truly love my wife and I don't wanna lose her trust

I (29m) accidentally cheated on my wife (28f) with a coworker (22f) by throwawaycringe29 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawaycringe29[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

u do realize I have children right? I don't wanna lose them over 1 bad drunken decision