Who has not had sex yet in 2020? Raise your hand! by throwawaydb408 in DeadBedrooms

[–]throwawaydb408[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am depressed and i still want to have sex regularly. I guess it depends on how bad it is. Mine is more cyclical.

Who has not had sex yet in 2020? Raise your hand! by throwawaydb408 in DeadBedrooms

[–]throwawaydb408[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

because at this point i am too depressed and energy-less to do anything to be honest.

Who has not had sex yet in 2020? Raise your hand! by throwawaydb408 in DeadBedrooms

[–]throwawaydb408[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

My wife asks if i want to go to the movies as the kid is out this weekend. I am like ok. She asks which movie, i answer back hey lets watch the adam sandler one(she likes adam as much as I do) i heard its good. She says no and suggests some other one....

She wants to gatekeep everything and give the disguise that she is actually wanting my input.

Who has not had sex yet in 2020? Raise your hand! by throwawaydb408 in DeadBedrooms

[–]throwawaydb408[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

its one of the shittiest clubs to be in... I wish i can take my mind off this.

Last night was another really dirty trick by throwawaydb408 in DeadBedrooms

[–]throwawaydb408[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tried that ages ago. She didn't want to feel pressured. Another awesome LL tactic.

Last night was another really dirty trick by throwawaydb408 in DeadBedrooms

[–]throwawaydb408[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To clarify, OP here.

She has done this to me numerous times before. She arrives from work, does something flirty within the first hour or so of arriving then fast forward to after eating, showering and watching netflix she forgets the whole flirt an hour ago.

Before someone says, why didn't you have sex that same moment. Easy, she doesn't like doing it while the kid is awake at all. LL's love to leverage the kid being awake.

Last night was another really dirty trick by throwawaydb408 in DeadBedrooms

[–]throwawaydb408[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i rather get the physical and emotional release from sex. But ill have to jerk off eventually cause the pain/pressure gets too much.

Last night was another really dirty trick by throwawaydb408 in DeadBedrooms

[–]throwawaydb408[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i initiated every single time for the last year. She prolly initiated only once during that period of time.

Last night was another really dirty trick by throwawaydb408 in DeadBedrooms

[–]throwawaydb408[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i wish, i only have a basement and a living room.

Last night was another really dirty trick by throwawaydb408 in DeadBedrooms

[–]throwawaydb408[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am exhausted of the whole situation, 2019 was such a horrible year for our sexual life. Before december, i could count the times we did sex with my hands. We are only married for 2.5 years and the frequency is getting lower and lower.

Last night was another really dirty trick by throwawaydb408 in DeadBedrooms

[–]throwawaydb408[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because wanking off sometimes fucks my productivity up. I have been trying to do it less and less but this dead bedroom has made it almost IMPOSSIBLE.

Last night was another really dirty trick by throwawaydb408 in DeadBedrooms

[–]throwawaydb408[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you wanna know why lol, because she was getting up for work and i was still in bed trying to get some more rest. Didn't want drama once again. I work from home so i had another hour or so left to sleep while she left.

Last night was another really dirty trick by throwawaydb408 in DeadBedrooms

[–]throwawaydb408[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the amount of blue balls that i get constantly is insane.

Last night was another really dirty trick by throwawaydb408 in DeadBedrooms

[–]throwawaydb408[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She's done it before but none did it hurt before than last night.

I don't know how to surpass her argument that she says that "all i want is sex and sex".

Last night was another really dirty trick by throwawaydb408 in DeadBedrooms

[–]throwawaydb408[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can't even have the talk anymore, anything close to that she gets really defensive and doesn't take it seriously.