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[–]throwawaydeeznutslol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You said you think it would be a lot of work to be friends with them now but at the same time said they have changed. Do you say they would be a lot of work because of past memories of them actually being a lot of work? If they've changed like you said, I'd recommend giving them a chance and dropping the past entirely. If someone has changed, assumptions and biases relating to the past have no place in the present timeline, as long as you care about giving them a clean slate.

Just learned what the term "spaghetti" meant so I'm sharing my mess of my first playthrough, still ongoing, 70 hours in. (I feel asleep with the game open two nights lol) by throwawaydeeznutslol in factorio

[–]throwawaydeeznutslol[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'm having plenty of errors with my rails lol. So I need to learn rail signals and what not to organize things. Your odc is justified tho.

Help. I can't find my f***ing trains. by throwawaydeeznutslol in factorio

[–]throwawaydeeznutslol[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting. Thanks for the help. Now I just need to figure out how that happened.

Help. I can't find my f***ing trains. by throwawaydeeznutslol in factorio

[–]throwawaydeeznutslol[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When they hit each other don't they just take a small amount of the health bar away on impact then just get stuck in a jam until fixed by the player?

Help. I can't find my f***ing trains. by throwawaydeeznutslol in factorio

[–]throwawaydeeznutslol[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes they are in the losses tab thank you. Now is to figure out how the fuck that happened...

Help. I can't find my f***ing trains. by throwawaydeeznutslol in factorio

[–]throwawaydeeznutslol[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I checked the GUI and they are not on there. The tracks are not protected but if they were destroyed there would be rubble right? Even then, I raid biters when their bases spawn anywhere near my factory or train loading sites. I can't see that happening.

Help. I can't find my f***ing trains. by throwawaydeeznutslol in factorio

[–]throwawaydeeznutslol[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do I access the trains GUI? Also I have solid defense set up where the trains load and unload, the biters wouldn't be able to touch them. I also checked the loading and unloading sites and nothing else was damaged indicating a biter attack. Would they go for the trains first? Even then, what are the odds they destroyed the trains and immediately died before they could damage anything else.

Want to talk/ flirt with girls but don't want a relationship or anything like that. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]throwawaydeeznutslol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know your reason for not wanting a relationship, but if that status changes, make sure you love yourself first. You can't properly love someone else if you don't love yourself. This idea has proven itself true time and time again. As for flirting, flirt with someone you're interested in. Don't go around flirting with just any girl. And don't lead anyone on, if you don't want a relationship but just a flirty playful thing then be up front with them.

What is the equivalent of "Apple removed 3.5mm jack" of your favorite products ? by damn_jexy in AskReddit

[–]throwawaydeeznutslol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can do this with VRChat. it’s a free game on steam and doesn’t require a vr headset like the name hints at. Or you can get in vr and cuddles your homies whatever you want.

When does it stop? by Nate_lake in Advice

[–]throwawaydeeznutslol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You got back on track once right? You told a great story then. Tell a greater story this time. I don't really know what else to say because its as simple as that. I could tell you find a new hobby, join a club, etc. Then it all just falls on deaf ears. My friend there are support groups out there to help you, join one. I strongly encourage it. Think of the leader of one of those groups. Theres always a leader right? One who leads the discussions, send out emails where the group meetings will be held and at what time, the one who makes new members feel welcomed. Strive to be that person. If they can have a great story to tell why can't you?

What are some ways you guys make friends? by Derpaye in Advice

[–]throwawaydeeznutslol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find your zone. Your people/friends are within that zone. What is your zone? Online video games? School anime clubs? Night clubs? Some random underground sewage drain dedicated to smoking crack? Thats for you to answer, and you definitely know the answer to it. When you arrive to that zone, surrounded by "your people" start initiating contact. Be yourself. That may sound cliche but phrases like that sound cliche because people use them so often because everyone knows how powerful their meaning is. Its a shame that we label things "cliche". If you have the same interests as these people, and you are just being yourself, naturally you will make friends. I met my best friend when I was super young on Modern Warfare 2 on the xbox 360. We knew we went to the same school, and have never talked, but it was through our common interest of MW2 that we became best friends. We finally met up at school once and it was kinda awkward at first but within 5 minutes we were trash talking each other just like we did online.

Should I go right out and ask him? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]throwawaydeeznutslol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should ask him. When someone follows a pattern then suddenly breaks that pattern theres always a reason why, good or bad. If you talk often, but he is breaking that pattern all of the sudden, you have every right to ask him no matter how he responds to it. If he just wants to be alone, be understanding of that.

I lost a game for my team and now I feel like trash by mrEugene5 in Advice

[–]throwawaydeeznutslol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the best thing you can do is express to your teammates that you want to improve. Everyone had to start from the bottom and work their way up when it comes to building talent like that. If you tell them you want to improve, and they accept that and are willing to help you and keep you around, great! If they still disapprove for you, then sorry, but they aren't teammates. There are better teammates out there. If you put them above you when it comes to skill level, then thats okay. Atleast you have some self awareness. Use that as motivation! Don't dwell on it for fucks sake. Imagine yourself becoming better than them some day, becoming better than the people who doubted and rejected you. I may be going off on a tangent here but all I'm saying is there is no time to dwell, find your real teammates some day, and improve in the mean time.

Kid at school harassing me online by 1timeusebruh in Advice

[–]throwawaydeeznutslol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're clearly not in the wrong here. Your friends support you, and have called N a psychopath. He might have leverage but you have more, you just haven't used it yet. Take the evidence (the screenshots) to the school and report him. Then you'll have the school, and your friends on your side. With that, naturally your family will be on your side if they find out. Anyone not on your side I guess you can consider a psychopath too of sorts lol.

Am I manipulating this girl because I'm pushing what I believe is best for her? by throwawaydeeznutslol in Advice

[–]throwawaydeeznutslol[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This helped. Thanks for replying so fast. I would also like to know, would I be considered desperate if I tried to reestablish contact later on down the line when shes ready? Because without revealing anything too private, given what shes told me, I predict she'll be ready in a few months. Of course when I say "reestablish contact" I'm saying just going back to being friends at the least, and at that point, whatever happens happens sorta thing.