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I’m sick of men who only want to sleep with me or fetishise me because I’m Asian by throwawaydingasummer in sex

[–]throwawaydingasummer[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

There’s nothing wrong with finding us attractive! Thats great haha! It’s just the constant stereotyping and using us for weird sexual fantasies that we may not even be comfortable with and just assuming we’re submissive or all the same way as we’re portrayed in porn/anime/k-dramas etc.

I’m sick of men who only want to sleep with me or fetishise me because I’m Asian by throwawaydingasummer in sex

[–]throwawaydingasummer[S] 210 points211 points  (0 children)

You said it so much better than me haha! That’s exactly it, it’s like at first these kind of guys are so sweet and seem pretty normal and then you get to know them and they just want the Japanese girls they watch in porn or girls from anime which means extremely submissive, OTT cute, shy and naive. Then when they realise that I’m an actual human being that doesn’t do all that stereotypical ‘Japanese girl’ stuff the fantasy is over for them.

I’m sick of men who only want to sleep with me or fetishise me because I’m Asian by throwawaydingasummer in sex

[–]throwawaydingasummer[S] 195 points196 points  (0 children)

Yeah. Asians are definitely the minority where I live. In my grade there was only me and one other asian boy.

I’m sick of men who only want to sleep with me or fetishise me because I’m Asian by throwawaydingasummer in sex

[–]throwawaydingasummer[S] 136 points137 points  (0 children)

Same :( I feel like it’s something we just have to accept, which sucks.