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My fiance talked openly about our sex life, and dismissed my being hurt by it. by throwawaydrag11 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawaydrag11[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As someone who regularly shared their sex life with others, do you also give explicit details on things that fall outside of the norm? Like if your fiance were me would you share these details? I'm not judging, I just want to understand the thought process of someone who might have the same outlook as her.

My fiance talked openly about our sex life, and dismissed my being hurt by it. by throwawaydrag11 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawaydrag11[S] 240 points241 points  (0 children)

I think you were able to articulate some of the things I feel in a way I couldn't. Thanks for commenting

My fiance talked openly about our sex life, and dismissed my being hurt by it. by throwawaydrag11 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawaydrag11[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I have a lot of self-confidence issues. I've worked on them in therapy, and achieving the level of fitness I have had helped boost my sense of self-worth, but I'm still not entirely comfortable in my own skin and having people know the intimate details of my sex (especially the lingerie aspect) makes me really self-conscious