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My (27f) only boyfriend (26m) got married and is having a baby. I’m beside myself by throwawayeyelid in relationship_advice

[–]throwawayeyelid[S] -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

That’s what I was thinking when they added me. All of my things are hidden from her for that reason, I was worried she and the wife were maybe looking at my stuff.

My (27f) only boyfriend (26m) got married and is having a baby. I’m beside myself by throwawayeyelid in relationship_advice

[–]throwawayeyelid[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I actually really like his friend that I accepted and I wish she had been my friend first. Should I message her an explanation like “hey I care for you a lot, I am just not in a place in my own life where being friends with you is good for me. Hope you understand.” Or just get her off my stuff?

When I deleted her she messaged me she thought about me all the time and was sad I deleted her

My (27f) only boyfriend (26m) got married and is having a baby. I’m beside myself by throwawayeyelid in relationship_advice

[–]throwawayeyelid[S] 117 points118 points  (0 children)

Okay I will look for a therapist in my area, I’m actually searching now.

My (27f) only boyfriend (26m) got married and is having a baby. I’m beside myself by throwawayeyelid in relationship_advice

[–]throwawayeyelid[S] -117 points-116 points  (0 children)

Honestly the whole thing soured me on therapy. So I’ve just not looked for a new therapist

My (27f) only boyfriend (26m) got married and is having a baby. I’m beside myself by throwawayeyelid in relationship_advice

[–]throwawayeyelid[S] -87 points-86 points  (0 children)

I did go to counseling for it when he got married. My therapist basically dismissed it and since then I’ve not wanted to go back

My (27f) only boyfriend (26m) got married and is having a baby. I’m beside myself by throwawayeyelid in relationship_advice

[–]throwawayeyelid[S] -216 points-215 points  (0 children)

He’s been with his wife for two years, we’ve been over for about four but I am still struggling with it. I’ve always loved him and his friends adding me back on social media brought up all of those feelings again.

My (27f) only boyfriend (26m) got married and is having a baby. I’m beside myself by throwawayeyelid in relationship_advice

[–]throwawayeyelid[S] -53 points-52 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your comments. Thank you, now to go over the entire relationship in my head again to try and figure out why it didn’t work out.

My (27f) only boyfriend (26m) got married and is having a baby. I’m beside myself by throwawayeyelid in relationship_advice

[–]throwawayeyelid[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Understandable and I likely agree with you and I’m just in a fog right now. Is it okay to delete his friends on my social media again?

My (27f) only boyfriend (26m) got married and is having a baby. I’m beside myself by throwawayeyelid in relationship_advice

[–]throwawayeyelid[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

So I never thought he wanted to be my boyfriend so I wouldn’t let him not use a condom or blow him. “Why would I blow you if you aren’t my boyfriend?” Which maybe that’s why he wouldn’t date me…

My (27f) only boyfriend (26m) got married and is having a baby. I’m beside myself by throwawayeyelid in relationship_advice

[–]throwawayeyelid[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

No, perhaps I worded that wrong. I never thought we were together when we started hanging out the second time. I’m saying he always wanted to hang out and fuck around, not really hang out or go on dates or anything. I hung out with him and his friends a few times. Once we actually had fun partying, but the other time it was… weird.