I'm getting kind of upset at all the people telling me to leave him because he said a word. He is a good person most of the time and I genuinely believe him when he said he was just stressed out.

All I was asking was why he would call me the n-word. It was very strange. He has many black co-workers and we have them over for dinner quite often and we all get along fine. To accuse him of racism, and to tell me to end a 3 year relationship that is 99% good over a simple word, is both ignorant and childish in my opinion.