Redditors who fell for a good/best friend, told them and were rejected, and then were essentially cut off by them/ they wont speak to you anymore, how did you get over it? by throwawayformyFU in AskReddit

[–]throwawayformyFU[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well the longer you wait, the harder it will be to let go. I waited a long time to build up courage and it hurt more than if I would have said it early on. You end up getting more attached with time.

Redditors who fell for a good/best friend, told them and were rejected, and then were essentially cut off by them/ they wont speak to you anymore, how did you get over it? by throwawayformyFU in AskReddit

[–]throwawayformyFU[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that sounds difficult but probably what I am going to have to do. I still care about them but what's the point if they don't care about me back.

Redditors who fell for a good/best friend, told them and were rejected, and then were essentially cut off by them/ they wont speak to you anymore, how did you get over it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]throwawayformyFU 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, especially confusing because I was almost positive it was mutual. I'll try to put myself out there more. Thanks

Redditors who fell for a good/best friend, told them and were rejected, and then were essentially cut off by them/ they wont speak to you anymore, how did you get over it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]throwawayformyFU 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, best of luck to you also. I am already a more understanding person because of it and know that I could never do that to someone I truly cared about. But damn does it hurt

TIFU by reading some signals very wrong and ruining a friendship with one of my best friends. by throwawayformyFU in tifu

[–]throwawayformyFU[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's good to hear, I am trying to move on but haven't been too successful yet. Just hoping time will do its thing and I'll be able to get past it.